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Momma Nalod……………
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Nalod
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7/28/2021  2:00 PM    LAST EDITED: 7/28/2021  3:51 PM
Mom is in hospice and were saying our good byes. Tender loving woman, Mother, wife’s intelligent sense of humor, gifted artist, educated, and a devote knick fan.

https://m.facebook.com/Davenportsportsnetwork/videos/on-april-29-1973-the-new-york-knicks-defeated-the-boston-celtics-94-78-in-game-7/230358571613624/

This game was a Sunday afternoon. I was about 12 and family huddled around the 19inch color TV for this game 7. Knicks were up 3-1 and Boston came back to tie it up. Dave Cowens was league MVP winning 68 games that year. Earl played but 25 min per game this series. Same for Willis. Clyde was the man1 Memminger played a key role.

Whole family and friends crowded around the tube and more than glory was a sense of relief winning 94-78. Havelchek still good but this was Cowens and Jo Jo white’s team.
The game ended and she pulled out a Lasagna from the over and we celebrated! All hail Clyde!!

Knicks 4-1 defeat of Lakers was anti climatic the following days. I recall staying up to 1;30 in the morning to watch the clinch on the road. No prime time for finals back then. Game time on east coast was 10:30. It was a week night to boot!

Best Mom story:

she came home one day and told us she saw Clyde get out of his rolls in his fur coat and followed him for about 5 city blocks. She freaking stalked him. She told us she was just mesmerized by his walk, the coat, the hat and the cool! She was a “Clyde Stalker!”

She was also my biggest fan and encouraged my basketball endeavors always. She insisted I get those gold suede Clyde sneakers! Moms are great that way!
Her Brother was a season ticket holders in the championship years and was instrumental in my love for the game and my best MSG moments. He tragically died a few months after they won at the age of 47. She never really got over losing him. The Knicks the next year succumbed to the eventual champ that was Boston. Dave and Willis retired.

We are so lucky to have had her for 84 years and like a true champ she just knew when to hang it up. Proud women thru and thru. Its really tough to go down this journey with her this but its also a gift of sorts. I’m sure I’m not alone with some of you having walked down this road. Great memories to last a lifetime. She’ll take them with her!
Peace……….

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BigDaddyG
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7/28/2021  3:16 PM
Good stuff She probably spoiled you too much with those Clyde's, but that's what moms do
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BRIGGS
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7/28/2021  3:25 PM
Sorry nalod
RIP Crushalot😞
Chandler
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7/28/2021  3:26 PM
Nalod I'm sure the sorrow is especially deep because the memories are so fond. Glad that they're so vivid for you too.
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7/28/2021  3:27 PM
Bless you, your mom, and your family. I went through it with my parents a few years back. It's a poignant, sacred time.
Nalod
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7/28/2021  3:54 PM
BigDaddyG wrote:Good stuff She probably spoiled you too much with those Clyde's, but that's what moms do

I remember when adidas all star was “The model” and she was horrified they were $16. They lasted 3 months playing hoop every day outside. I went thru pair once in three week of low top Converse. Back then was you put a hole in the sole and did not realize it until a rainy day!

Nalod
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7/28/2021  3:57 PM
KnickDanger wrote:Bless you, your mom, and your family. I went through it with my parents a few years back. It's a poignant, sacred time.

Thx, My grandparents died when I was very young. Like all gone by the time I was 5! My Kids until 3 years ago had all 4 grands still going. My kids are 27 and 30 now. Soon we’ll be down to 1.
As painful as it is they were gifts!
Most of the time! LOL

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7/28/2021  4:22 PM
Nalod wrote:
KnickDanger wrote:Bless you, your mom, and your family. I went through it with my parents a few years back. It's a poignant, sacred time.

Thx, My grandparents died when I was very young. Like all gone by the time I was 5! My Kids until 3 years ago had all 4 grands still going. My kids are 27 and 30 now. Soon we’ll be down to 1.
As painful as it is they were gifts!
Most of the time! LOL

Sounds like it was a real blessing to have her as your mom, and so hard losing her- even though she’s made it to 84, it never seems enough time. Feel really fortunate and sad for you, her and the rest of your family.

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7/28/2021  5:19 PM
I cannot imagine how you feel man. I keep pushing away the thought of my folks getting older. It must be tough. Hang in there and remember that even though you cannot have your loved ones forever, nonetheless you will always have those precious memories...
Everything you have ever wanted is on the other side of fear- George Adair
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7/28/2021  6:00 PM
I am so sorry Nalod.
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7/28/2021  6:00 PM
my dad had cv in dec, didnt think he would make it. he did, still cant smell/taste to this day. my mom is probably in worse shape now. just had heart valve surgery, and has been in icu 3 times since last year. on the surface, you are handling this well. not sure i will be -- some folks are already sitting on me about what comes next. for sure not a pleasant pressure set.
GO TEAM VENTURE!!!!!
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7/28/2021  6:12 PM
Sorry to hear it Nalod. Went though this about five years ago myself. Hang in there.
Oh good lord... https://www.youtube.com/shorts/XkmGrX7O0lQ
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7/28/2021  6:48 PM
Sorry to hear about your mother. It is a tough thing to lose a parent. Went through it a few years back. It will always be sad when you are reminded that they are no longer there. However, the sadness fades a tiny bit each year and is replaced by fond memories. Sounds like you will have many.
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7/28/2021  9:42 PM
Condolences
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7/28/2021  9:44 PM
Sorry…prayers and condolences
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7/29/2021  10:22 AM
I’m buoyed by the memories that you’ve shared with us, and hope for a peaceful transition for both you, the family and Mom. OAKAAK
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7/29/2021  10:29 AM
My condolences- thanks for sharing your stories and may she have peaceful final moments.
If you are still following the team and reading sites like this, there is nothing, short of your own demise, that is going to throw you off this train.
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7/29/2021  11:39 AM
Such a beautiful tribute to what sounds like a beautiful woman. I feel blessed that you shared with us. Thank you and I wish you and the family nothing buy joy and happiness.

(Side note, as a doctor, lmk if there's anything I can do or help with xx)

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7/29/2021  12:10 PM
Sorry Nalod. Blessings to you and your family. Good to know you can appreciate the time you had with Momma...
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7/29/2021  12:27 PM
Sorry Nalod. Happy for you to have this time to bond with your mom. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with UK.
Momma Nalod……………

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