mase14 wrote:You have serious woman issues
More than any other professional sport in the Western world, the NBA and it's few "franchise players" are truly like a "marriage"
Tim Duncan and the Spurs are an example of a "good marriage" It's a true partnership. Sacrifice was made on both sides for the greater good of the entire group ( i.e. the family unit) Duncan had the power and clout to demand more, refuse accountability and just do whatever he wanted, but he made a choice to focus on the greater good of the partnership and the family "goals"
Melo and the Knicks are an example of a "bad marriage" Melo wants the COMMITMENT and RESOURCES of the franchise, makes demand, casts blame, takes no responsibility, and yet refuses to put in half of the partnership
- Won't put out ( i.e. refuses to be a leader)
- Won't cook or clean ( i.e. won't play defense)
- Won't be civil ( i.e. won't show restraint for outright selfish behavior)
- High maintenance ( i.e. coach killer and feuds with any teammate who gets more attention)
- Won't put in the effort to maintain the house or raise the kids (i.e. everything has to be all about him, all the time)
The Knicks ( the husband here) have given RESOURCES, TIME, EFFORT and HARD WORK to try to hold up their end of the partnership. Melo ( the jilted entitled wife here) doesn't care. Give me what I want, or I will sulk and cry and whine and blame everyone because I refuse to do the bare minimum.
Just like a real DIVORCE, the Knicks are gonna have to take a hit to get rid of Melo. It will cost them time, bad press and likely have to take bad contracts back.
Why is DIVORCE so expensive? Because it's worth it.
You are mistaken, I don't have issues with women, I have ISSUES WITH MELO ACTING LIKE A WOMAN. No accountability. No logic. Just entitled selfish behavior that's all about getting massive attention ( branding) and validation (being an "icon")
The Knicks have no one to blame but themselves, they let the "woman" here go out of control. They didn't set boundaries, they didn't set limits, they didn't put "her" in her place. And now "she's" out of control.
Jeremy Lin was a good marriage. He wanted to be here. He lead the team. He put the team on his back. He shouldered the blame in losses. He stepped up and stepped forward, for the greater good of the "family" in place.
But like all marriage, you need to "vet" i.e. check out the prospect. Lin always worked hard. Always put in the extra work. Never gave up. Always considered the greater good of the family. Melo, in contrast, in his Denver days, was always a high maintenance selfish diva. Just like a guy who ignores a girls past cheating, her whoring, her drinking and drug use, her herpes and her lousy friends and her poor character, the Knicks just ignored the red flags literally smoking out of Melo from the beginning. And look what it got them?
The Knicks gave Melo EVERYTHING he wanted and demanded. And where did it get them?
Just like a soft serve pushover husband who gives the mean and thoughtless and selfish wife everything she wants, how is that going to work out? Giving a spoiled brat all the toys in the world?
You don't turn a ho into a housewife.
You don't turn a selfish no defense shotjacking coach killer with zero sense of civility and zero leadership into a franchise player.
Character matters. It just does. Talent is great, but it's nothing without the drive and accountability to consider the "family" in place ( i.e. the way Tim Duncan carried himself as a Spur)
A lot of you have talked, over the years, about having kids and raising kids.
You want your son to marry some basic chick who has been plowed hard by 150 guys on Tinder and can't stop drinking and snorting coke?
You want your daughter to marry a guy who can't hold a job or can't be faithful or can't show even basic respect?
Then why would anyone here want the Knicks to form an "engagement" with a player with so many red flags, hoping he'd change into something resembling a true partner? It's like hoping an alcoholic stops drinking themselves to death and change for you. Or hoping the person stops beating you. Or stops cheating on you. Or stops treating you like garbage.
What's the saying, find me a pretty girl and I'll find you a guy out there who is sick of her crap. That's Melo, the family is now sick of his crap. They done with the "relationship" But like a jilted wife, Melo doesn't want to leave a comfortable situation. Why go out there and fend for yourself, when you can just be a leech and shoulder no responsibility and yet still demand all the benefits of the commitment?
Melo carries the character of a basic ho. A low rent jump off. Some video jizz sponge of zero integrity.
The Knicks are punished like everyone is punished for being so "lonely" (i.e. tired of losing) that they neglected the basics of just having some standards in the first place (i.e. having some freaking dignity)
Just being "pretty" ( i.e. being able to be a one dimensional scoring in isolation) is just not enough. It can't be enough. Character actually matters.
Do I have an issue with women?
Or do I have an issue with a fugazy "franchise player" who acts like a woman who resents the marriage she chose in the first place?
*Drops the mic*