bernard - well written and honest description of your feelings.
orangeblob is correct, how can you watch half of the team you rooted for sent away, and not feel some empathy for their departure?
If you look at athletes as simply stats and objects of gratification it is easy to brush it off and say "we got better"
If you see them as people, it is impossible to forget what Felton said in October about bringing a winner to New York. If you are the restaurant owner and staff who made friends with Gallo it is not so simple to have a member of the family not show up for dinner.
DrAlpaeus poses some great questions that can only be answered one at a time by each fan of the NYK.
Building an emotional connection is what the most successful franchises strive for. Sound effects, flashing lights and sexy cheerleaders optional.