What is with chicks that are nice and friendly for the first few days you know them and then seem to completely ignore your call or texts? And I do mean call, as it was only one. I wasn't the chick in the situation. I didn't end a text every minute or hour. Not even every day. Everything was A okay and then one from one day to the next and for the last 4 days now I have received not even a single word from this girl. Nothing happened to cause that action. Literally nothing. Don't these chicks have common courtesy to at least tell someone "I don't want to talk" or some ****? *Shakes head*

[Edited by - gkfv2 on 12-19-2008 7:06 PM]

Posted by GKFv2:

What is with chicks that are nice and friendly for the first few days you know them and then seem to completely ignore your call or texts? And I do mean call, as it was only one. I wasn't the chick in the situation. I didn't end a text every minute or hour. Not even every day. Everything was A okay and then one from one day to the next and for the last 4 days now I have received not even a single word from this girl. Nothing happened to cause that action. Literally nothing. Don't these chicks have common courtesy to at least tell someone "I don't want to talk" or some ****? *Shakes head*

[Edited by - gkfv2 on 12-19-2008 7:06 PM]

Fuck-em! If they want you, they'll accept you. If they play with you, then you'll be their idiot. So stop playing with these dumb ass bitches and ****-em. Otherwise move on. Stop wasting your time and stop crying. If you can't get through a door, because it's locked, are you just going to stand there and wait? Of course not. Your going to go find another door that opens, otherwise go home, right? Use common sense and know when their ****ing with you.

Posted by GKFv2:

Yeah dude I'm not crying or angry. I am confused with the female mind. I'm trying to find out what they do what they do.

Best of luck on that one. I'm trying to shake you into understanding that it's you' that needs to find yourself. It's not the girl man! They come a dime a dozen. Figure yourself out first and then go hunting.

Happy hunting!

You don't attract weird anything. Too many people waste time trying to figure things out. If you like someone, then tell them. Better to tell someone you already know for awhile. All they can do is reject you. And you have the right to move on. We all been through this. Whatever you do, don't panic. It's all a part of life and later on, you'll be glad you looked around first. Gotta push the buttons find out what clicks, right? Have fun when in the dating scene. Don't be in distress. That's your first clue.

Dating isn't just about getting the girl. It's about being rejected. It's about becoming friends. It's about long term and short term relationships. It's about accepting certain things about yourself and others. It's about human emotion. It's about being hurt and being happy and being satisfied and even being angry and afraid.

Don't be afraid of rejection. Learn from it. Let it make you into the man (woman) you will be for the rest of your lives.

But whatever you do, don't waste your time on being sick over any of it. Break from your shell and open up like a flower and be cool. LOL

[Edited by - 4949 on 12-19-2008 7:39 PM]

Posted by Cookdcokehop:

Well since the thread is up, I should state my issue. I THINK MY GIRL IS FUCKING CRAZY! I mean seriously, she is so sensitive about everything that I can hardly be sarcastic and sarcasm is a staple of my personality. She doesn't trust me. Now don't get me wrong shorty is in love with me. She is willing to do anything for me (well up until recently). I am just tired of arguing every other day. Is it worth trying to make it work? Should I just leave her?

Sounds to me like it's already working. What did you expect? Perfection? Can't live with them and can't live without them. It's just a matter of time, like a fine wine for it to be better as you both go along.

And I forgot to mention. Girls! Protect yourselves.

Posted by Cookdcokehop:

Posted by 4949:

Posted by Cookdcokehop:

Well since the thread is up, I should state my issue. I THINK MY GIRL IS FUCKING CRAZY! I mean seriously, she is so sensitive about everything that I can hardly be sarcastic and sarcasm is a staple of my personality. She doesn't trust me. Now don't get me wrong shorty is in love with me. She is willing to do anything for me (well up until recently). I am just tired of arguing every other day. Is it worth trying to make it work? Should I just leave her?

Sounds to me like it's already working. What did you expect? Perfection? Can't live with them and can't live without them. It's just a matter of time, like a fine wine for it to be better as you both go along.

And I forgot to mention. Girls! Protect yourselves.

Your like the tenth person to tell me that . I guess I should just suck it up (no homo).

A relationship also involves figuring out if you still want to be together. Me and my gal survived many fights and near break-ups and we are now each others biggest allies. Your constantly having to maintain a relationship if it seems like a job to you's vs. being happy in the relationship.

For me it used to be a job. Now I'm happy with it. Even with it's ups and downs.

Posted by GKFv2:

So apparently she finally sent me a text apologizing for being "really busy" with work...

And maybe she is' really busy. She might be ambitious. The killer of all steady relationships. Knowing when to invest and not' to invest certain amounts of time. Is it worth it you ask yourself?

I have girls as friends but girls are girls. They always defend each other.

one thing u will come to learn as u get older is that chicks are only into u as long as u provide a sense of excitement for them, especially at that age... girls are extremely self conscious & bipolar creatures & they crave attention... u need to appease their need to be desired w/o going over the top & being too attentive... it's a very fine balance & it varies from 1 chick to another, but they all exhibit the same needs to varying degrees.

as long as you project a sense of style & confidence about yourself w/o being too clingy, they're gonna want to know you more... but the trick is u always gotta keep them guessing & wanting more... as soon as u become boring to them & they think they got u figured out or as soon as u no longer present a challenge to them cuz they know u're falling for them, they'll go looking for the next shmuck to flirt with... trust me, it happens everytime w/the attractive ones... the fat nasty ones are gonna accept u no matter what so u don't gotta sweat how u act around them... they just happy they got a man period.

rule of thumb, just make sure u get a piece of that poon before they get tired of yo ass otherwise u'll have spent all that time, effort & in many cases money to get to know them for nothing... & make sure u don't get those overly bipolar ones too pissed at u cuz they can really get vindictive & mess yo sh_t up if you're not careful.

or u can go for the older lonely cougars out there & just be their boy toy... whatever works for u.

Too many women on this planet to worry/chase after one, truth be told, everybody aint gonna like your ass, no matter WHO you are, move on

there are so many broads out there, most of them desperate. its just that simple. get on it

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Posted by GKFv2:

What is with chicks that are nice and friendly for the first few days you know them and then seem to completely ignore your call or texts?


It probably means you should start looking at something 25 pounds heavier and start from there.