Posted by Allanfan20:

This MAY sound kind of immature, and I understand if it does. And I am part of a dating site called plentyoffish.com which has a forum. I asked about this on the forum and kind of got hammered for it, but I'll ask anyway, on here, just to see if the opinion is different, just b/c this isn't a dating site, so people come here for sports.

I've dated this woman several times, and I like her very much. She has issues, that I wanna see if I can work with, but we shall see. One of them seems small, but it just bothers me, even though maybe it shouldn't. I can't seem to get it past me. She has a boyfriend that passed away and right above her left breast, she has his name tattooed. Now, I KNOW he's important and he'll always be a part of her. Trust me. But would something like this bother anybody else, ESPECIALLY is say your hooking up and you see somebody else's name on top of her chest?

Again, maybe immature, but I can't help what naturally bothers me and not sure if it's something I should let go.

Posted by BRIGGS:

Posted by Allanfan20:

This MAY sound kind of immature, and I understand if it does. And I am part of a dating site called plentyoffish.com which has a forum. I asked about this on the forum and kind of got hammered for it, but I'll ask anyway, on here, just to see if the opinion is different, just b/c this isn't a dating site, so people come here for sports.

I've dated this woman several times, and I like her very much. She has issues, that I wanna see if I can work with, but we shall see. One of them seems small, but it just bothers me, even though maybe it shouldn't. I can't seem to get it past me. She has a boyfriend that passed away and right above her left breast, she has his name tattooed. Now, I KNOW he's important and he'll always be a part of her. Trust me. But would something like this bother anybody else, ESPECIALLY is say your hooking up and you see somebody else's name on top of her chest?

Again, maybe immature, but I can't help what naturally bothers me and not sure if it's something I should let go.

I wouldnt worry about that--no one is perfect. More importantly make sure she has good and aggressive fellatio skills--a college degree and her affinity for eating and working out have excellent balance. Take a good look at her mother as well and make sure she has a docile side---you want quiet in your house when you are watching the games:)

Posted by Allanfan20:

Well, the point is mute. This chick is out of the picture now, and it has NOTHING to do with her left breast or any tatoos, nor her ex. It's probably better anyway. This has been a real good discussion though, and hopefully it can keep up!

Posted by Allanfan20:

Well, the point is mute. This chick is out of the picture now, and it has NOTHING to do with her left breast or any tatoos, nor her ex. It's probably better anyway. This has been a real good discussion though, and hopefully it can keep up!

Posted by Allanfan20:

We were supposed to go out for the first time in awhile on Saturday. Mind you, all we were doing was texting lately, but I already knew the girl so I didn't mind too much. It was a long time since I saw her though, so it would have been good to speak on the phone a little, but it seemed like she just refused to do that. However, in the morning, she said I can't wait to hang out with you (Without me asking) and that night, she said she didn't think it would work (Without me baiting her into saying that).. Fine. She's not the only pepple on the beach.

I just thought it was a very weird situation, and I'm glad I don't have to deal with it anymore. It was similar to when I was dating her awhile ago, so I learned my lesson in life out of it. If you don't learn from history, you're bound to repeat it.