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EnySpree
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6/15/2008  10:22 AM
(Sorry if I post this too late)

Yeah so this is my 10k post.....I had an idea to have a totally bugged out extravaganza of a thread......but I figured I'd save it for when Solace announces his last post on the forum (I'm just teasing solace )

Yeah so its fathers day......

I'm just gonna be real with yah. Its not a good day for me. It used to be. That's when I was living @ home with my son, his mother and her other son. I was there for them and I had control of how they were going to be shaped as a man. If they turned bitch you would have no one to blame but me. That all changed when their mother started to lash out in an attempt to hurt me when we broke up.

I haven't seen her other son in months. Its a shame but I had to distance myself and actually delete him out of my life cuz of his crazy ass mother. He's 13. I was 13 before and I know he has gotta be screwed up over this. He maybe so? Maybe no? It messes me up though.(not intended to rhyme here, lol)

So my son.....I only have him on my days off and that happens to be after school. So I see him a grand total of 25hrs in a 4 week period divided between only 4 days. He stays overnight with me twice during that period but I have to take him to school the next day. Its hard.

I'm learning through talking with older men that you can't let it take you down. We are the providers. All we can do as men is provide......when you kid needs something, do your best to provide. Common sense and practicality...men provide that. My son shows a lot of soft tendancies cuz of his mother. I'm not there all the time. If it were up to me he would be with me 24/7. All I can do is take it in stride and do my best. He could be with me all the time and still end up soft. Can't take it personally cuz it would break me down. I'm learning.

I'm just venting a little as I'm in my box at work all day till 7pm. I needed to get these thoughts out.

This goes out to all the father's out there trying to do the right thing by your kids.

Happy Fathers Day Bitches!
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6/15/2008  10:43 AM
Damn Eny that sucks dude. Chicks are crazy...

Like you said, the best you can do is provide and hope that when you do see your son that you influence him enough and get in his head enough where you send him down the right path. Sucks man..

Happy Fathers day to all.

Awesome 10k post Eny.
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6/15/2008  10:52 AM
^^ Oh wow. Happy Fathers Day. Happy 10,000! That's a style post.
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6/15/2008  11:35 AM
That sucks Eny. I hope everything works out for you.

True, heartfelt props for making your 10K actually mean something.
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6/15/2008  11:53 AM
Happy Father's Day Eny and to all father's out there.

Eny, I'm sure you try to make every second of those 25 hours count and your son love's and respects you very much for it.

Classy way to use your 10,000th post. I'm sure I'll be the exact opposite when I get there. Have a good day man.
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6/15/2008  4:13 PM
Eny my man, i have newfound respect for ya... Happy Father's Day.

& yo, i can totally relate on them crazy chicks, belieeeeeeeeve me.
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6/15/2008  4:31 PM
happy fathers day all!

eny I feel ya man! I have a 3 yr old daughter and I spent from August of 06 to May of this year either not seeing her or being a visitor. I did keep her on weekends so it wasn't all bad.

My decision to enlist in 06 caused a huge rift between me and her mom. She decided 4 months into my enlistment she didn't want to live the military life and didn't want to put anymore of herself into this so she nixed all marriage plans and broke up with me. I was able to get out in March of 07 and i came hoping to fix things but the damage had been done.

Circumstances in her life has led to her moving back in with me. Nothing is promised as far as us making a relatonship work. I'm just taking it day by day and putting my best foot forward.

was listening to steve harvey 1 morning and he made the statement God opens all doors twice; that second door may not be exactly what it was as the first but its there. if you want that door to open again, keep love in your heart. my door to this family has come a second time and I'm trying to make sure it doesn't slam shut in my face no more.

hope my words help.

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6/15/2008  4:36 PM
happy father's day and best wishes...keep thinking positive...
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6/15/2008  6:23 PM
Eny, my bro -- happy father's day. It's tough to hear about your situation man. It must be even tougher to live it. It sounds like you are handling it right. Good luck with that.
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6/15/2008  10:50 PM
Stay in there eny, its a long road. One day he'll be a man and if he turns out to be a good one himself, then you'll know you hung in there and was a part of it!

congrats on the 10k!
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6/15/2008  10:58 PM
Happy Father's Day as well. Sad news to hear but keep your head up. There is never a problem in life, only a solution. Hopefully one day you find that solution.

I hope you all enjoyed your Father's Day.
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6/15/2008  11:00 PM
Posted by GKFv2:

Happy Father's Day as well. Sad news to hear but keep your head up. There is never a problem in life, only a solution. Hopefully one day you find that solution.

I hope you all enjoyed your Father's Day.

I like that...
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