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Cookdcokehop
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I didnt write this but I think it was something I wanted to share to some of you dudes that make love to the New York Knicks Finals tapes beacause they have no women in their lives. My "game" has been maximized to its fullest potential after reading this.
These following paragraphs might be offensive to some who differ in views. Some of the terminology used is in urban context. Holla at me for the translation.
"Middle School/ High school Mackin
For you dudes, its best to learn the game at this stage. Learning at a young age will help prevent alot of bull**** in the future and present. Now during these high school/middle school days, you dont want to "wife" no one up. Alot of girls at this stage are immature. So it’s best to just play the field and chill. Also it’s important to **** with chicks at other schools. You do this so that no one is in your business. I remember I was ****in wit a girl in HS even though I knew I wasn't supposed to (I broke my own rule). It was cool until we broke up and then all my ****in business was in the air. I had people looking at me on sum funny **** cuz this chick was telling them **** that wasn't even true. So getting with chicks at other school is the best move. Also this is the time to really get ready for the next phase.....which is college.
Now with that being said, dont get into no serious relationships AT ALL! Try not to fall in love and all that **** cuz all that does is add extra drama to something that wont last anyway. And besides, yall to young to be talking all that love **** anyway. So it’s important to stay away from the serious relationships cuz when push comes to shoves, you gonna have to cut **** off before you go to college. And on that note, make sure you cut off the relationships during the summer before college. I say that because if this was something semi-serious for you or her (which it shouldn't be) but if it was then you'll have those two or three months to do ya thing before you go to college. You'll have time to clear your mind of that ****. Another reason to break ish off is because it prevents any drama or cheating while you’re at college. At college, this is a major growing time. You see new things and meet new people and you build new relationships.
Dudes you gonna want to get ya **** on and if there are a bunch of fine bitches around you, you not gonna play with your dick all the time, tryna be faithful to ya high school sweetheart. Fuck that. You gonna get ya **** on. It’s the same for chicks. She go to school down south and you go to school back east.....You actually think she's gonna play with her clit all day tryna be faithful to you? Nope! She gonna meet some dude who gonna lay down the Mack and have her face down and ass up. So there's no point in tryna continue a relationship when new **** is popping off. This prevents cheating, people getting hurt and other bull****. Out of sight, out of sound (More on that later). So that’s how you should handle this typa ****.
Women
One thing that can be said is that they are the most uncomplicated complex creatures on the planet. So let’s get into a few tips and other things.
Women Aint Shit
Yeah dont take this the wrong way when I say this. What I mean is that they aren't no one to be worshipping. They have no superpowers! They can’t heal the sick! They can’t create life or nothing so why treat them like they can do all that ****? The sooner you realize this, the better your game will be.
Treat Them How They Treat Themselves and You
Everyone says, "Treat others how you would want to be treated". Fuck that when it comes to females. Treat them how they treat themselves and yourself. If they are:
handling their business, goin to school, keeping themselves together, doing positive things, being productive and she's respectful and good to you, if they doing **** like that then you can treat them with the same respects and you can treat them good and all that. But if she is some goosemonkey, some boogawolf bitch that aint doing ****, being disrespectful to you, sloppy looking, weed smoking, sucking dick all day by different niggas, just a real ****ed up person. IF she like that then u treat that bitch as the loser she is. Because a loser female wont be appreciative AT ALL! You can treat her like a so called "queen" or whatever and she'll still cheat, act like a bitch and just be disrespectful overall. Why deal with that? Why treat someone good that dont deserve it? If you put money in an investment, your gonna put it into something that will give you a good investment back. Why put money into a crackhouse when you know that **** won’t get any better? You gonna lose money instead of making it. You gotta think the same way with females. Treat the good one good and the losers as the losers they are.
You’re Not the Only Guy in Her Life
And im not talkin about her brother or father. I mean you’re not the only dude tryna get at her. Lets just be honest here.....there’s always at least one dude lurking around. Now she may not be dealing with this dude at the time or he may come in her life later on but either there is or there will be some guy tryna get in her ear. And a female can have two guys in her ear. If she's single and she's just doing her then its fine but if this like ya lady or whatever then you have to be the only one in her ear. The one that’s in here ear the most is the one she will follow. Women are natural followers, even if it’s subconsciously. So she can’t have multiple dudes in her ear cuz she will be confused. And if this is yo lady then she can’t be confused (i.e. have other dudes in her ear). Because if that other dude or dudes are in her ear more than you then she gonna be plotting on other dudes, meaning she gonna be riding for that dude and not you.
Women Dont Have Males Friends......They Have Dicks on the Side
Let’s be real. Dudes we dont call females we not attracted to. Point blank. And if we do it’s because she an ugly friend and you wouldn’t EVER **** wit her anyway. But that’s how we do. We call females we wanna date and/or ****. Now I dont give a **** what a female says, she doesn’t have males friends. She has dudes that want to **** her, dudes she keeps as backup dudes and dudes she's ****in now. The only male friend she could have is a gay dude and a fool in a friend zone (And these friend zone guys wanna **** too). You know these guys she says are her "Male Friends", I guarantee if she called em and said, "Come beat this ***** up", they would break their necks tryna get to her.....so how are they "Just Friends?” I PROMISE! You will never hear a guy say, "No I dont want to tear up that *****.........you are my friend and I dont think of you in that fashion". NEVER will you hear a guy say that. So you keep that **** in mind while you letting your lady have these "Friends"
These are the dudes that will throw salt in ya game if some **** is to happen between you and your lady. These dudes will try to throw that season salt, that LAWRYS in yo **** lol. Like I said, they want to **** her. Everyone except the gay friend wants to **** her so if yall have an argument or fight and yall not talkin, then she gonna have these "Friends" in her ear. Talkin all that, “You should have better" and "If I was your man, blah blah blah" or "I'm here for you" or "I care for you". All that is dick talk. They are tryna get her to **** her legs open. And eventually she will if ya game aint on point and you check her about this "Male Friend" ****.
These are also the potential "Backup boyfriends" or "Backup **** buddies". Like you ever heard of a situation or been in a situation where you and ya chick break up and then like two days or a week later, she has a new dude? Females like to have a dude on the shadows before she breaks up with her current boyfriend. Like females have mental breakups with dudes, where she may be in a relationship with a dude physically but mentally she's done with the relationship and thinking about the next guy. For example, I had a girl and we broke up and then like the next day she had a new dude. And I was like, "WTF? Where did he come from? He just came out of nowhere!” The thing is that he didn’t come out of nowhere; it’s just that she was mentally done with our relationship and had this dude in the back seat until it was time for him to become the pilot. And when he came in, she took me out. So that’s why all this "Friend" stuff is a crock of horse **** lol. Now there are rare exceptions to this but for the most part these dudes are:
1) Guys that want to ****
2) Guys in the friend zone (That want to ****)
3) Guys she's ****ed before (i.e. ex boyfriends)
4) Guys that are ****in her
And its just overall disrespect for her to be kicking it and talkin to other dudes. Now like I said before, if this not yo lady then you can’t say **** but if its ya lady then its disrespectful. And this isn't a trust issue either; this is just logical reasoning.
Let Her Be the Emotional One
Females are emotional by nature. Men are not. Men are physical creature.....females are emotional creatures. It’s that simple. Dont be sitting around telling a woman all your feelings. Dont be expressing how ya feel to her and how you want to be the key to her heart and all this other ****. I mean its cool to let her know u feeling her or whatever but all that simpin and brown nosing and telling her how she's you sun, moon and stars......dont do it. Dudes you just have to let **** flow. I dont care how much you like her or love her. And with that love ish.......dont tell a girl you love her before she says it to you. Now at this point and age, you shouldn't tell a girl that you love them at all! But in general, you dont tell her you love her before she says it because if she says it.....more than likely she means it. Females dont go around telling dudes they love em. If you tell her you love her before she says it, alot of the time she's only sayin it out of pity and that’s lame on both of your parts. I remember I said that ish to a female a long time ago and she said it back. It became a common thing for us but eventually I found out it was bull****. She told me she was sayin it outta pity. So watch out for that cuz you dont wanna look like a fool or get ya feeling hurt.....like I said....dont be all extra emotional......play it cool. They want to be with a man.....not another female. If they wanted another female then they would be gay or bisexual. You can express yourself without simpin and all that. You just being around her and lacing her with good game and good macking should let her know how u feel and where u stand. Some times you have to tell it like it is but most of the time......all the emotional ish is unnecessary.
If she likes you then she’ll **** you
If your game is tight and this female is feeling you then she will have sex with you. Females know within the first minutes of meetin a dude whether she wants to **** or not. Also, if she likes you then you dont have to do anything for her. Dont think you need to buy a female this or that......dont think u need to take her here or there in order for her to like you. If ya game is right then u good. I had a female recently that I had on my heels. She was literally in love with me......she was ****in me all crazy....doing the freakiest ****! She would run errands for me, help me with ish.....she was down for me. And the only thing I did was spit continuous game at her. So let ya game speak for it. Be yourself and spit top game and you'll be straight.
Woman Are Attracted to..........Confidence, Fun and Security
Yes, that's right guys. Women are attracted to confidence and that’s the key to attracting these women. Confidence really means --not insecure. In other words, it means not being submissive and not seeking anyone else's approval, including women and others. Most people seek women's approval, and even other men therefore destroying confidence.
Confidence......It Works!
Confidence is seen in an outward way as having a calm, cool, smooth demeanor with relaxed, spread out body language. This really communicates confidence and a total lack of insecurity. This is also related in the business world as well. Self confidence isn't only important for dating. It's important in business dealings and in socializing in general. If one projects confidence people in the business world are more likely to feel confident in one's abilities. If one can gain self confidence one will be more successful in one's career and in one's social interactions and that in turn will lead to more self confidence. That doesn't apply if one is confident that everything is OK when it's not or that one is using the right approach to a problem when one is not. It does mean that one shouldn't conclude that one is incompetent because an approach one takes fails.
Now they might get into relationships with guys that are losers, abusive or just mean period but if you ask them then I bet you that these guys had a gang load of confidence. Also having good conversation and being good company is also a good thing. You always hear that woman love “bad boys†because they are just full of life and they are fun to be around. Also these women know that when they are with these guys they can be safe and protected from impending danger or other things (i.e. other guys). As this has its truth, it also has its downfall. Normally, on average, these women get into major disputes with these men or even worse. This type of relationship usually does not work out.
You don't have to change yourself but enhance yourself
Now you may not be the type of guy who fits into that "bad boy" image and that's good. So what you will have to do is to take the good features from this type of guy and enhace it with your own self being. Bascially you will need to build confidence, make haer feel comfortable, have fun with her and let her know that she can feel safe around you. If you do this, combine with your natural features, you will be dating and meeting that right person in no time.
Now I hope that this has helped many of you niggas out here who are having some trouble talking to woman or who just need a little insight on why woman pick certain men. Remember that the women are out here so just go out and date. You might find that special someone for you.
No man should get married before 35, Why?
When you finally settle down, you want to be financially situated...By 35 you should have establish a very good paying job (100k and up) and a nice bank account...So you don't have to worry about not being able to support yours...Also your seed or seeds will be able to go to a good college...Your seed or seeds should always have a better life then you did.
Live out all your fantasies before you get married.
This is why 35 is the perfect age to settle down...By 35 you should have all of your fantasy's out of your system...Do everything and do it more then once.
The perfect woman.
By 35 you should have had every kind of women...So it shouldn't be hard settling down with the right women...When you was in the hood you ****ed hoodrats...When you was out at the clubs with your dudes, I know it was a few times where you had to take one for the team so you ****ed fat and ugly females...You ****ed dimes and career females...So now you should have females nearly down pack.
Never settle down with a female with a office job.
I learned this from my uncle...Females hate working 9 to 5, 6 days a week...Example when you're at a store in the mall who are the costumers likely to get in to arguments with a dude cashier or a female cashier? usually females on a job schedule will leave their job once you get married...So it's way better to settle down with a female that has a job where she's on her own schedule like doctor, dentist, stock broker, real estate broker, etc, etc.
Out of sight....out of mind
Out Of Sight…..Out Of Sound
Out of sound...out of mind
Out of mind...out of body
Females have this thing where they think its ok for them to be ****in around wit guys as long as they dude don’t know. And fellas do it too. You think you can get away with the **** but u cant. But females will do **** like go away on like a trip and then start getting buck wild. Like I had an ex girlfriend that I was goin on a trip with. We went to the Bahamas and I knew I was gonna **** (U See…..that “male friend” **** fellas……). She had a dude but that didn’t matter cuz she was talkin about……”What happens here….stays here”. That’s how ppl think……they will do whatever as long as it’s out of sight out of sound. Like that’s why I said to break off long distance relationships when ya goin to college cuz she will get her some dick regardless of what she tells u……..just like u will get some college ass…….Out of sight……Out Of Sound.
Rapport
"Rapport" is another word for trust. B4 you actually spit at a female, you have to gain her trust. Sometimes when you spittin, you may notice the female might seem disturbed or uncomfortable. I read some books about persuasion, game and some other ****. I learned that you cannot persuade a bitch unless she trust you first. You can tell if she trust you you by looking at the body language. If talks while looking down at her feet, she answer's ya questions with a one word answer. These are signs that she aint feelin u. Me personally, i try to approach a bitch as friendly as possible(unless it's a hoodrat, i have to get into pimp mode lol). Perhaps a simple "hello" or just approach her with a question about something
How to Stay Out The Friend Zone
No one wants to be in the friend zone. It’s not cool.....but there is a way to prevent it. The most obvious thing to do is to shut the hell up. Dudes you can't be running ya mouth to these females cuz you will end up in the friend zone. Dont be talking on the phone till the sun comes up telling her how when you were a lil boy you didn't like baby clowns or **** like dat......you telling her ya whole life story. Damn all that because the more she knows, the less she will wonder about, which in fact will make you look boring and she's just gonna **** wit someone who is a bit more mysterious. Gotta stay spontaneous. So stop all the chatting with females. You should only call a chick so that yall can set something up for yall to do in person. That only takes a few minutes to do. So get her to talk, you dont tell ya life story and you will stay out the friend zone. Also dont gossip with females. Don’t be on the phone talking about what Keyshia Cole or some chick was wearing with her cuz that’s some auto-friend zone ****. So keep that in mind also.
Swagger/Appearance
I know dudes done heard this like a hundred times, but confidence is the main thing yo. All yall niggas can be the most handsome, flyest niggas around, but if you ain't got dat swag son, u assed out. Broads laugh at dudes who are nervous and lack self esteem. Some girls know you be nervous the minute you step to em'. If you know in your own mind that ya swag on point, trust me son, you aint gonna have no problems pulling these broads. In order to be successful in the dating game, you have to lose the fear of getting dissed because how you gonna date a bitch and be scared at the same time?!? Also, aint no point in steppin to a bitch with ya shoes all curled up. Lookin like dem ****s dehydrated son. Females are shoe experts, so make sure ya foot game is good. Hit up da barber shop every week to keep yaself well groomed. Haircut or shapeup nigga it don't matter just go you feel me? All these things help out your game. Knowing ya gear is good helps with ya confidence. Just step out the house decent and clean.
Conversation Skills
Now that ya swag is good and all that, now its time to spit! Spittin doesn't take that much of an effort imo. Alot of niggas think you gotta say some extra **** to a girl just to bag her. The more basic and personal your conversation is, the more she'll see where your comin from. Feel me on this fellas. You aint gotta step to a bitch on some, "Baby, ya feet must be tired because you been runnin through my mind all day." SSMMHH. Fuck them Fresh Prince of Bel-Air pick up lines son word up. Niggas be tryna do tricks n **** tryna pull a rabbit out and **** smh. Just make the convo personal. Just ask questions that make it look like your getting to know her. when she answers you question, just build off of her answer. Like if she says "I live in Jonestown", you say "Word? How long have you been living out there?" When you understand this technique, you'll be spittin for eternity. That's basically how you show a female you have good conversation skills, which turns them on. Once you see she givin you some positive body language, tell her to call you at a certain time or whatever. Make up an excuse to leave and be like, "Aight check this out, take my number down so we can finish talkin tomorrow or something" (telling her to do it makes it hard to reject you. Plus it makes you look confident.) Do this to every chick you step to.
If Necessary....more ish will be added. I hope this really cuts down on the lame topics and BS thank"
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