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12/6/2007  10:47 PM
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/07/sports/basketball/07knicks.html?ref=sports



As Knicks Comfort Teammate, They Grow Closer


On an icy December morning in Coney Island, in an old wooden church, the Knicks stood shoulder to shoulder across the pulpit, a fractured team no more.
Laid at rest before them was Donald Edward Marbury, the father of their teammate. At the front of the congregation, a somber Stephon Marbury sat with his family, a short distance from his team but seemingly much closer in spirit.

Malik Rose, addressing the Marburys from the pulpit, said: “Words can’t express what you’re feeling, your entire family is feeling. We feel it, too. We’ll continue to pray for you all.”

It was standing-room only, more than 600 people packed the Coney Island Gospel Assembly (posted capacity 496) yesterday morning for the funeral.

Most were from the neighborhood — old friends, family members, teachers and coaches who mentored Donald’s seven children. They came to pay their respects to a Coney Island icon, a man who sent five sons to Division I basketball programs, and one to N.B.A. stardom.

Stephon Marbury’s talent and drive lifted his family out of poverty and out of the Surfside Gardens housing projects, not far from where the funeral was held. When the Marburys returned yesterday, their support network spilled into every corner of the church.

Still, it was hard not to notice the group of 14 taller-than-average men who filled the pews near in the front left corner. The players arrived together, by bus, and were flanked by a mini-congregation of Knicks coaches, trainers, executives and support staff. Among those in attendance were Isiah Thomas, the coach and team president; the Madison Square Garden chairman, Steve Mills; the former players Allan Houston and John Starks; and the broadcasters Mike Breen and Gus Johnson.

Dozens of bouquets and wreaths lined the front of the room, a sea of reds, yellows and pinks, interrupted by one arrangement of orange, blue and white.

After friends and family shared stories of Donald Marbury’s life, they invited Rose — the Knicks’ elder statesman and conscience — to speak on behalf of the team. Rose walked onto the stage by himself. He was about 25 seconds into his remarks when the rest of the team, from Jamal Crawford to Eddy Curry, Quentin Richardson, David Lee and Renaldo Balkman, unexpectedly filed in behind him.
It was a powerful gesture, regardless of circumstances — but especially because of circumstances. The Knicks have not always stood together the last several seasons, on the court or in the locker room. It was only three weeks ago that they seemed ready to break apart.

Marbury had left the team last month over a disagreement with Thomas, and left his teammates feeling abandoned. There was an informal vote, and a unanimous agreement that Marbury should not be allowed to play when he returned.

Thomas overruled his players, and the fractured Knicks careered through an eight-game losing streak. They bottomed out with a 45-point loss in Boston. For five consecutive home games, Marbury has been booed at Madison Square Garden, an object of scorn in his hometown.

There was more pain off the court. Robert Williams, a childhood mentor of Marbury’s known as Mr. Lou, died Nov. 13. Marbury’s aunt Helen Thomas died six days later. It seemed that he had endured every imaginable heartbreak. Then, on Sunday evening, Donald Marbury left at halftime of the Knicks’ home game against the Phoenix Suns, complaining of chest pains. Moments after the game ended, Marbury learned that his father had died of a heart attack.

Suddenly, there are no locker-room divisions, only empathetic teammates trying to find the right words to console a grief-stricken friend. Rose cited a passage from Romans: “All things, both good and bad, happen for the good of all those who believe.”

When the service had ended, and the rest of the Knicks had filed out and boarded the team bus, three players stayed behind. Rose, Crawford and Lee had been asked by the family to serve as pall bearers. Each of them greeted Marbury with a warm hug. Crawford, perhaps his closest friend on the team, whispered a few words as they embraced, and Marbury patted Crawford’s head.

The Knicks have played 17 games but have seen enough sorrow and turmoil to last two seasons. For the moment, Marbury’s personal loss overshadows all, and there is no indication of when he will feel ready to play again. The Knicks will wait, respectfully, and then return to the task of rebuilding frayed relationships. Perhaps it began with 14 men standing shoulder to shoulder in a Coney Island church.

“Time heals all wounds,” Rose told the gathered mourners. “Just open up your heart and continue to trust God.”

REBOUNDS

Eddy Curry is considered questionable for tonight’s game at Philadelphia. Curry missed his first game of the season Wednesday after turning his left ankle during the team’s shoot-around.


[Edited by - NYK3 on 12-06-2007 10:49 PM]
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12/6/2007  11:03 PM
it's good to hear about the team pulling together for a teammate in their time of grief... hopefully they can show the same type of solidarity on the court during crunchtime
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12/6/2007  11:43 PM
Thats awesome really. You got the guy who leaves his team, and in the end, his team comes to him. Powerful stuff.
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12/6/2007  11:46 PM
Sounds like the guys acquitted themselves well. They acted as good friends and Teammates.
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12/7/2007  1:02 AM

I think I need a man hug after that article....

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12/7/2007  1:07 AM
Posted by kam77:

Thats awesome really. You got the guy who leaves his team, and in the end, his team comes to him. Powerful stuff.


Not really because basketball and real life are two different worlds. You always should try and apply the Good Samaritan principle in your life. It's cool to know they understand this. Just like Q tried to beat Marbury's Azzz yet they still play with each other on the court as teammates.

[Edited by - TrueBlue on 12-07-2007 12:07 AM]
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12/7/2007  10:19 AM
Why normal and natural things are viewed with the Knicks like extraordinary?
This is how team and people in general must behave.
I am not expecting anything special to come up from normal people feelings.




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12/7/2007  10:44 AM
The media is pathetic. Anyone that buys into the idea that Marbury's father dying will lead to Crawford playing defense and shooting 45%, Balkman and Lee finding Allan Houston-like range, Curry losing 45 pounds and playing defense, and so on and so forth, is just grasping at a piece of straw floating in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean hoping it keeps them afloat until they are rescued.

Seriously, it's gotten so bad we're counting on the death of a human being to catapult this sorry excuse for a professional sports team from the cellar to the elite?

I can do nothing but shake my head at such ideas. I find them ignorant and I find them insulting to not just the intelligence of fans but to the Marbury family.

So what do we do now when the nuance of "team came together for Don Marbury" wears off and they lose a few games? Pray Curry's dad passes so they can rally around that for a win streak?

Seriously, this line of thinking is pathetic. I don't mean anyone any offense on here if you believe such things to be a rallying point - I'm just expressing my opinion.
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12/7/2007  10:55 AM
Posted by TrueBlue:
Posted by kam77:

Thats awesome really. You got the guy who leaves his team, and in the end, his team comes to him. Powerful stuff.


Not really because basketball and real life are two different worlds. You always should try and apply the Good Samaritan principle in your life. It's cool to know they understand this. Just like Q tried to beat Marbury's Azzz yet they still play with each other on the court as teammates.[
[Edited by - TrueBlue on 12-07-2007 12:07 AM]

Forget it. Why am I not surprised you don't get it.
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12/7/2007  11:04 AM
I think there is a chance that these circumstances bring the team together for a few games. It's a little scary to think we were so close to getting rid of Isiah Thomas, and now a string of victories could ruin all those hard earned losses by knicks fans.
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12/7/2007  11:42 AM
Posted by Cash:

I think there is a chance that these circumstances bring the team together for a few games. It's a little scary to think we were so close to getting rid of Isiah Thomas, and now a string of victories could ruin all those hard earned losses by knicks fans.


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12/7/2007  12:43 PM
Posted by kam77:
Posted by TrueBlue:
Posted by kam77:

Thats awesome really. You got the guy who leaves his team, and in the end, his team comes to him. Powerful stuff.


Not really because basketball and real life are two different worlds. You always should try and apply the Good Samaritan principle in your life. It's cool to know they understand this. Just like Q tried to beat Marbury's Azzz yet they still play with each other on the court as teammates.[
[Edited by - TrueBlue on 12-07-2007 12:07 AM]

Forget it. Why am I not surprised you don't get it.


You're the one who doesn't get it. You seriously think his teammates would show up to a funeral and hold a grudge against him because he left the team for a game? Or not attend when they were probably welcomed by Steph himself or asked to attend on behalf of MSG. You think they would take their in season turmoil to the funeral? You think they would display that? When someone dies most trivial matters are irrelevant to mature decent human beings. You acting as if they defied an odd going above and beyond showing fellow feeling to a another human being in a time of need. They did what they ought to have done.
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12/7/2007  12:55 PM
Maybe this funeral is as unifying as the one for Q's brother, the year we won 23 games and Q's sister had to call him off from beating Marbury to a pulp.
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12/7/2007  8:14 PM
Posted by TrueBlue:
Posted by kam77:
Posted by TrueBlue:
Posted by kam77:

Thats awesome really. You got the guy who leaves his team, and in the end, his team comes to him. Powerful stuff.


Not really because basketball and real life are two different worlds. You always should try and apply the Good Samaritan principle in your life. It's cool to know they understand this. Just like Q tried to beat Marbury's Azzz yet they still play with each other on the court as teammates.[
[Edited by - TrueBlue on 12-07-2007 12:07 AM]

Forget it. Why am I not surprised you don't get it.


You're the one who doesn't get it. You seriously think his teammates would show up to a funeral and hold a grudge against him because he left the team for a game? Or not attend when they were probably welcomed by Steph himself or asked to attend on behalf of MSG. You think they would take their in season turmoil to the funeral? You think they would display that? When someone dies most trivial matters are irrelevant to mature decent human beings. You acting as if they defied an odd going above and beyond showing fellow feeling to a another human being in a time of need. They did what they ought to have done.

I just said it was a powerful statement that they all joined Malik on stage. It was a nice poignant thing they did. And to do that despite any personal feelings they may have basketballwise (they voted unanimous that he shouldn't play) or otherwise about Marbury very recently was a touching reversal. They didn't have to do that. Maybe not all their hearts were into it but whatever. I'm happy they acted in the manner they did. I'm happy the entire team took off from scheduled practice to support Marbs. They didn't do that for Zack and his Grandmother. Not saying they should have. But its nice they did that for Marbury. Thats the end of it.
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12/8/2007  1:52 PM
Was it a nice gesture? Yes, absolutely. Was it something amazing? I wouldn't go that far. His teammates should have been there and they were.

It was impossible for all them to be at Zach's grandma's funeral b/c they were on the west coast and I think her funeral was in Indiana? If not, it was in some other state, and they would have had to cancel the games on the west coast in order for them to go to his grandma's funeral. It would have been impossible and I'm sure there are no hard feelings between the Zach Randolf clan and the Knicks.

If the Knicks were at home and her funeral was in NY, then I'm sure everyone would have been there for him.
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Good article from NY Times on the funeral

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