Posted by martin:
happens all the time. Better start opening your eyes. Most employee agreements are at will so firing/hiring, staying/quiting happen at a moments notice and smart employers actually plan for this kind of thing, so it's naive to think that $10K are lost and good alternatives are expired. And that's why employment offers are followed by a written letter offer.
Seriously, I want to know how many years you have been working and what your experience is.
Again, we're in 100% agreement that this happens all the time. I'm not niave to the situation, as you seem to be misinterpreting. I've been working in the software industry for six full years. Again, nobody said employers weren't reasonably prepared either. I don't know where you're interpreting that. I'm talking about the morals. You're talking about it happens, which I agree with; it happens. But my argument is that it's not right.
As for employment offers, they are followed by a written letter offer, but it's not binding, since everything is at will. Prospective employees can go back on these and have. Is it legal, YES. I never stated otherwise. Is it right? No.
I also acknowledged, that in extreme circumstances, like an ill family member in another state or citizenship issues, it's understandable. These are rarely the case. Usually it's just people who can't make up their mind. That's unfortunate and MORALLY wrong.
Wishing everyone well. I enjoyed posting here for a while, but as I matured I realized this forum isn't for me. We all evolve. Thanks for the memories everyone.