TheGame wrote: Jordan changed his mind, which he had a right to do. The solution is simple.
DeAndre Jordan broke what was considered an area governed by a "gentleman's agreement"
You ever hear the saying, "This is why we can never have anything nice around here?" Usually it's because a select few douchebags take advantage of a loophole or something they can exploit, then that former area of freedom or opportunity is taken away from everyone.
What Jordan did, hiding from Cuban and his own agents, and then hiding behind his own owner, GM/coach and core franchise players is childish. You act like a child, people will determine it's time to treat you like a child.
The irony here is if the Knicks were a far more competitive team and another Eastern team did this to them, most ( I should say ALL) of you "So what , who cares?" crowd would be up in arms about it. That's the thing about ethics, you learn a lot from people who see insult only on a sliding scale.
To allow this to happen in the future is the NBA saying it enables low character. That's bad for business, it's bad for marketing the league, it's bad trying to appeal to fans in general, it's bad for trying to push the game as "family friendly"
A man's word should mean something. When a man gives his word and bond, that should mean something. For those of you who want to excuse it away, I feel sorry for you, but I feel sorry more for your kids.
Think about DeAndre Jordan. His kids will learn, by observation, than a man's word doesn't have to mean anything. Kids learn from their parents by what they see every single day. They learn by watching how the people who are supposed to guide and teach them, how those people live their own lives. Jordan didn't just piss on the Mavericks, he pissed on his own good name, his family name and his kids.
Those of you who think what Jordan did was ok because he could make more money or he's going to better team anyway or its ok because there is no real "rule" to stop him, then I feel sorry for all your kids. Every last one of them. Because if it happened to the Knicks, you would be livid. When right and wrong goes on a sliding scale for someone, that someone is exhibiting low character. The test of real character is what you do when you get a little power, or if you choose to do the right thing when no one is looking, when you could get away with doing the wrong thing without social repercussions for it.
And that's the thing. People always show you their value structure by how they suggest their tolerance for others to either do the right thing or do the wrong thing.
I feel sorry for DeAndre Jordan. There is no amount of money or soft circumstance where a man should sell his good name and word as bond.
I feel sorry for Jordan's children. Because he just taught them by action and inaction that character means nothing.
And I feel sorry for some of the children of some of you. Rationalizing unethical behavior is about the worst lesson you can teach your kids.
A man's word should mean something. That that specific point needs to actually be articulated and explained to some of you is beyond pathetic.
And when some third string power forward lays a forearm into Blake Griffin and drives him into the floor and the refs look the other way, well Blake asked for it. How much of an idiot do you have to be to mock the league and incite the owners before what is clearly going to be an impending labor war.