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WaltLongmire
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![]() Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. He should be embarrassed. Doc should have made him call Cuban immediately after the signing, at the very least. He's also a bit of a coward, though, because he did not have the strength to pick up the phone when Cuban was calling him last night. A lot of folks look bad during this fiasco...mostly Jordan, but also Doc, until I hear differently. EnySpree: Can we agree to agree not to mention Phil Jackson and triangle for the rest of our lives?
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smackeddog
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![]() WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. I don't think badly of anyone in this- there was no spite involved. You only get one life, DJ changed his mind regarding what would make him happy. I feel bad for dallas as I'm sure DJ does, and I get that they're angry, but that doesn't make DJ a villain. |
WaltLongmire
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![]() smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. Comes down to being a standup person. Jordan and his handlers could have changed their minds and come out looking fine if they wanted to.
We pay them as adults, worship them as gods, but treat their behavior and transgressions as if they are small children who are unable to understand the concepts of responsibility, consequence, commitment, and honor. Jordan is more a coward than a villain, but his actions affected fans, a franchise, and his fellow players in a significant and some might say harmful way. No other way around this...he might be a giant physically, but as a person he is a very small man at this time. EnySpree: Can we agree to agree not to mention Phil Jackson and triangle for the rest of our lives?
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knicks1248
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![]() WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart.
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smackeddog
Posts: 38391 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 3/30/2005 Member: #883 |
![]() WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. Not really. By stand up person, you mean he should have done what you think he should have done even if he was miserable for the next 5 years. It's his life, it's easy to cast judgement on people, but at the end of the day you have to go with what's right for you- life is fleeting. Teams sign players then trade them all the time- bit of a double standard. To be honest it took guts to backtrack despite the backlash. If he'd stayed with mavs, then the Clips franchise and fans would have been screwed. I'd like to think fans are becoming more accepting that players are just people- they mess up sometimes, we're all flawed. |
WaltLongmire
Posts: 27623 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 6/28/2014 Member: #5843 |
![]() smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. World would be F'd up big time if everyone thought like this. Jordan was not even enough of a man to talk to Cuban, and from what I know now, he still has not talked to him. Goldren rule...do unto others as you would have them do unto you. So if your fiance backs out the day of the wedding you walk away with a big smile because she was just doing what was right for her? You give up a good job to go elsewhere... completely uproot your life to move to another state where you've been promised a job, and you get there and the guy says they decided to hire someone else without telling you and you walk away with a big smile?
Don't worry about actually making a decision...you can always press the do-over button...just do what's right for you and f--- the rest of the world or anyone you hurt. EnySpree: Can we agree to agree not to mention Phil Jackson and triangle for the rest of our lives?
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smackeddog
Posts: 38391 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 3/30/2005 Member: #883 |
![]() WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. Actually the marriage analogy is a good one- if on the eve of your wedding your fiancée realised she'd made a huge mistake, do you honestly think it would be better if she shut up and married you and spent the next 5 years regretting it? If he'd gone to the mavs, then the clipper fans and players would be just as screwed as the mavs are now. You know I'm sure mavs fans will recover, it's just basketball. |
WaltLongmire
Posts: 27623 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 6/28/2014 Member: #5843 |
![]() smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. ...But you, blissfully ignorant of what she was going to do, would take it all in stride after making all of your plans with her in mind...perhaps taking a job you did not like only to make more money to support your family and the children you had talked about having...and the $75Gs you and your family kicked in for the wedding that didn't happen would be no issue at all for you. because at least she was doing what was right for her. Thank goodness the Knicks weren't the ones fooled by this loser and coward. EnySpree: Can we agree to agree not to mention Phil Jackson and triangle for the rest of our lives?
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meloshouldgo
Posts: 26565 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 5/3/2014 Member: #5801 |
![]() WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:smackeddog wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:Bonn1997 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:WaltLongmire wrote:H1AND1 wrote:What Jordan did was not "wrong" because non of the agreements made before 7-9 are binding in any legal way. It's all just a handshake deal until then. Now, one may morally and ethically disagree with what Jordan did (ie: break a handshake/gentlemen's agreement) but that does not make it "wrong" in any way beyond one's personal definition of what's appropriate in that situation and how much leeway should be given to someone who makes a handshake deal then retracts it due to a change of heart. Completely with you on this one. No idea why people go on about this like he did nothing wrong. Deandre Jordan is coming out looking really stupid out of this transaction. Much of what you do as a professional is based on a honor system and this guy just went and did something with zero integrity. To say the NBA needs to change it's rules is a really weak argument. The NBA is not in the business of telling grown ass men how to behave like professionals. I cannot teach anybody anything. I can only try to make them think - Socrates
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WaltLongmire
Posts: 27623 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 6/28/2014 Member: #5843 |
![]() Expected more from him on this...pretty surprising.
Will be interested to see how this affects his dealings with other GMs. If you look at the full Tweet (details) people are pretty brutal in criticizing him. Bad Karma on this whole affair, I would think. Tweet was deleted or there was problem with the URL: EnySpree: Can we agree to agree not to mention Phil Jackson and triangle for the rest of our lives?
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