Posted by fishmike:
Posted by tomverve:
Can be understood by you. Because you can sympathize with anger.
good way to twist my words around. Also the 2nd sentance is an assumption and your wrong, I dont sympathize with it.
I didn't mean to twist your words around or say that you sympathize with spousal abuse. I meant to say that you think beating one's wife out of anger is understandable (you DID say that) because you have experienced anger yourself and you know it can make a person do bad things. So you can sympathize with a main psychological factor that might lead someone to hit a wife.
All I was trying to say is that there are most probably f'ed up things in Qyntel Woods's psychology that are specific to some combination of his past life events and his genes, and these things are probably not shared to a large degree by you or me. Without that common basis, of course it is going to be more difficult to understand what might move him to do whatever. I just don't think that this thing about understanding really factors into the morality of a given act and the explanations for why it should be more or less acceptable.
Look, I'm not making excuses for Qyntel. What he did was bad. Likewise, Kidd beating his wife was bad. Are there extenuating circumsances we can point to? Yes, in both cases, there are. That does not make what they did acceptable, of course not. But in *both* cases you have occurrences beyond the power of these men to control pushing them to do the things they've done, so you can't use that as a basis to say that one can be partially 'excused,' or that one's action was more 'understandable' but the other's wasn't.
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