Nalod wrote:TheGame wrote:So in researching this, Udoka actually is (or at least was) still engaged to Nia Long, so while they were not married, they were still together and she had just moved to Boston to be with him like two weeks ago. Apparently, according to TMZ, it was a female staffer who handled Udoka team related travel and this person had even handled the travel arrangements for Nia when she would come to Boston. Supposedly players were concerned about the situation, which is understandable. Most men would have mad respect for Nia Long as a beautiful African America actress and then your coach is out here smashing the team travel coordinator. Most people would see that it was not going to end well because Nia was going to eventually find out.
That she is a beautiful African actress or not, we don't know the nature of their relationship or what kind of person either are in private.
Steven A asks was the employee f fired or suspended. Its a good question but obviously a tough one to ask. My take would be offer her a very generous severance package, a non disclosure signed regarding the private nature of the affair. I take it they are and have been investingating if he or the team has liability via civil action. If so she gets compensation and signs a non disclosure to settle. Im not saying sweep the wrong doing away. Im saying own it but keep it private among the parties. The details is not important. That the franchise was not dismissing or disrespecting an employee under duress is important.
Is the women "guilty" as well? Perhaps. If so, yes, she gets fired and given the nature of the publicity I give her that severance and if her performance outside of the "corporate indiscretion" was good, she gets a letter of recommendation. If the infraction was consensual and not bloody awful why ruin her life? For all we know she might too be married.
Coaches are the leadership face of the franchise. Do don't fire him having an affair. I fire him for breaching the role model, the distractions in his life and the franchise given his actions because it inhibits his effectiveness and performance. And yes, he broke the rules of his employment. He ****ed up. He'll get another job and be ok.
None of this is good. But life happens.
I am with SAS on this one. None of this should have been made public. Both Ime and the lady should have been fired. Apparently she is married so she’ll probably get a divorce (but then again, what do I know on this one?). Ime would probably end his engagement (again, what do I know?) but the only people who know are the Celtics and the involved parties. The public would speculate. Ime and the Celtics would be scrutinized. They could all say they had bad disagreements that keep them from being able to do their jobs. Ime could get a job somewhere else. The lady probably could as well. The Celtics don’t look bad.
Instead, they made this public and everyone is f’ed over.
“Whenever I’m about to do something, I think ‘Would an idiot do that?’ and if they would, I do NOT do that thing.”- Dwight Schrute