TripleThreat wrote:loweyecue wrote:WOW you are so full of bitterness that you have completely lost whatever balance and/or perspective you may have had. You may be partially right about a decadent culture of entitled behaviour that exsists among some highly paid atheletes who are coddled endlessly by fans and media and coaching staff. But to extend that to all african americans and generalize randomly shows two things. You probably have some personal reason for this level of bitterness and two you have no idea what various minorities have to put up with day after day. You should never talk about Empathy - don't embarass yourself anymore than you already have.
How so?
To point,
- I'm the only one relating the race issue back to basketball
- I'm the only relating the issue back to Jeff Van Gundy and his commentary about coaches and players and their conflict, which is usually a white coach and a black player. This during a KNICKS game, about a KNICKS FORMER COACH talking, touching on an issue between the KNICKS CURRENT FRANCHISE PLAYER AND THE RECENTLY DEPOSED KNICKS COACH.
- I'm the only one discussing how race factors into viewing and commercial habits of potential fans and viewers and how that impacts the NBA bottom line.
- I'm the only one relating the race issue back to Linsanity and Jeremy Lin, where he is actually one of the biggest minorities in the NBA.
I'm the only one that gave a real proactive suggestion for Zimmerman to keep himself out of legal trouble and where Martin might still be alive - if you find a group, ANY GROUP, that you don't deal well with and can't get along with and you have a choice, don't interact with them and contact the authorities. How is this "lost perspective"? People teach their kids everyday that if you don't like playing with certain kids or playing certain sports or participating with anything that's a choice, no one says you have to do it. In my SCENARIO, Zimmerman would be home alone with his problems and out of the public eye and MARTIN WOULD PROBABLY STILL BE ALIVE.
Instead you drop off your ad hominem banter about how the problem must lie with me, because I'm the one to say clearly blacks and whites don't get along, have never really gotten along well, there is a long and bloody history of it and maybe the best answer is for both sides to stay on their respective sides? Or is it the commentary that I've never heard a black person EVER in my life say, "You know what, while it's not easy being black, it can't be easy not being black and being told something is complete racism and the risk of being sued or dragged in the press can work like a battering ram"
"You don't get it, you just won't ever get it"
Good job, more ad hominem there. I see plenty of the black culture in the US asking for non African Americans to try to understand it's not easy being black and to put themselves in the shoes of difficulties of black Americans. How often do you HEAR OF BLACK AMERICANS TALK ABOUT THE STRUGGLES OF NON BLACK AMERICANS DEALING WITH BLACK AMERICANS? Do you think it's fun for the rest of America to have to tiptoe and wonder if someone might be offended or if someone might sue for this or that or if someone will pull the race card to avoid any kind of accountability. I RARELY see African Americans discuss how claims of racism can work TWO WAYS. One way to effect real social change in a situation that might need it. But also, the second way, where many use it irresponsibly to further their own profit or agendas. Rarely do I hear African Americans acknowledge the second.
Chris Rock can walk on stage and make fun of anyone he wants. But if a non black said jokes about black people in a comedy routine, how would that play out? Jason Whitlock can make fun of Jeremy Lin and his penis and riff on stereotypes about Asians and not lose his job. But Jeremy Lin was a sports writer and made a joke about Jason Whitlock the athlete and comments about black and their stereotypes of their endowment? Shaq can say mocking things about Yao Ming on TV, all for the grand crime of Ming getting more All Star votes, with no fine and no suspension. And if Ming came on TV and told Shaq to chill before he called O'Neals grandmother and before he fell over from hypertension? Jason Williams can mock and offend Asian fans in Sacramento, taking the league and the Kings WEEKS to fine and punish Williams. And if Williams said something negative about blacks instead? How long would the suspension be or the fine? Maybe some African Americans don't want to hear it, but many non African Americans are tired of it. Tired of the immunity blacks get to say what they want and do what they want but in reverse it would be a legal and media firestorm.
If you don't like the sight of blood, don't train to be a doctor. If you don't like dealing with money, don't work at a bank. If you don't like dealing with kids, don't have them. If you don't like a certain restaurant, don't eat there. In life, we all have choices to avoid things we don't like or things that create negative experiences for us. So I'm out of bounds to say if Zimmerman finds he doesn't like or can't get along with blacks, if that's the case, to simply say, "Hey, nothing good is going to come out of this, I should just call the cops and put myself in a position to be nowhere near blacks at all."
That's the knotty problem of EQUALITY, it requires a TWO WAY STREET. It's not just white America that needs to be sensitive to African Americans, it's also incumbent on African Americans to consider how they act, behave and send messages to society about their role in this society. Grant Hill walks a two way street. He takes care and concern about not just how others treat him, but also his own accountability and behavior to send the message that you can't just ask for tolerance, you must give it as well. Does Stephen Jackson walk a two way street? Gilbert Arenas? Latrell Sprewell? Ron Artest? None of those guys have done much to reduce the "bad boy" criminal violent out of control black stereotype. Its bad for the league, it's bad for their franchises, it's bad for their brands, but it's also bad for blacks everywhere. Arenas can't just bring guns to his locker room and later claim racism as a factor in his punishment and treatment by the media. He has to own up to his choices and his own complicity in the problem.
EQUALITY also means you can't blame other people for things done by people a 100 years ago. Go back in human history and lots of people got screwed. Asians died building the railroads. They were sent into carts full of dynamite to blast new paths for laying track. If the dynamite went off too soon, too bad. Many were interned during WW2 and lost all their property and freedom. American Indians were slaughtered. The Jews faced the Holocaust. Immigrant Irish were held down and discriminated against when they came to America. Women weren't allowed to vote. Gays were beaten and murdered. In some places in the world, who you pray to can get you killed. If you want to blame Zimmerman for being a jerkoff or a criminal go ahead, but this pandering childish view that somehow blacks in America are "owed" payback for things done long ago is comical. No one gives you jack **** in this life, you have to go out and earn it or go out and take it, grab it by the horns and make it yours. Other cultures have done it, pulled themselves up by the bootstraps, but suddenly it's everyone elses fault that blacks can't succeed in America? It's not like America hasn't tried. There are scholarships, programs, resources, youth sports, all kinds of opportunities out there for black America to get ahead. It's the rest of non black America's fault that those opportunities aren't being used well or efficiently?
At some point it's not about black or white, it's about being a man. In life, a man, whatever his color, has to make his own destiny. Does it suck Martin died? Sure. Do I feel bad for his folks? Sure. Does it automatically mean he died from some racist act? I don't know. Looking at his troubles, he didn't do a lot to help himself post death with his image and I'd argue black America hasn't done much to help him with the general perception of the black image to the rest of non black America.
But go on, claim racism behind every corner to avoid things like accountability, logic, reason and empathy. Gandhi said, "Be the change you want to see in the world" Something to think about the next time Stephen Jackson shoots up a night club and people wonder why there are empty seats at NBA arenas and so much of non black America sees blacks as conflicts/lawsuits waiting to happen.
You think?? I am not sure I agree ... I especially take offense with your classification on line 238 of your post. I think that needs to be given it's own chapter IMHO.