orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.

Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.

Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.

There is a joke in my country:

"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, '****, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"

What the hell is wrong with you?

Panos wrote:

orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.

Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.

Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.

There is a joke in my country:

"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, '****, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"

What the hell is wrong with you?

Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.

sebstar wrote:

TRU wrote:

sebstar wrote:life sucks and I hate it...cant wait to leave it. Real talk. fukk this shyt

Man, suck it up.

Tough love, bro... stop bytchin. That's the first step to getting past this.

Less Marbury, more Mason.

Easy to just spit that out and say that, bro.

Easy to say when its not you watching your father die. Easy to say that when its not your father that is talking suicide and your lil' sisters call crying and screaming because of it on the daily. Easy to say when its not your moms overseas because of this stupid ass war, hating life. Easy to say when its not you that felt like you had a soulmate and then the bytch acts like you never existed in conjunction to everything else going on. I flucked up like any man but I was there for her and I was close to her family and put nothing above that. Now I mean jack shyt. Easy to say when you're not the one feeling trapped by loneliness, guilt, and depression.

Im no bytch fam, but brothas bleed. Im human. I dont give a fukk what you have to say.

I'm really sorry about what your going through. All you can do from this relationship is learn from mistakes and take it as one of life's hard lessons. Take it one day at a time and stay strong for yourself and for your family.

bitty41 wrote:

Panos wrote:

orangeblobman wrote:

Panos wrote:

orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.

Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.

Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.

There is a joke in my country:

"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, '****, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"

What the hell is wrong with you?

Why the hell are you hating on me? I gave the guy some practical advice and some humor. Only an idiot would think that my post was in bad spirit. Are you insane?? If I was in his shoes I would rather have practical advice and humor than abstract poetry and sad songs.

I don't hate you, man. Hate is a strong word. I just shake my head at you. Should probably just hit the ignore button...

This is why I stopped dealing with this clown.

You turned a post that tried to help a fellow man into a bashing session of me. Now, I'm flattered that you would waste your time to take your self-hate out on an anonymous message board poster, but instead of making yourselves look like idiots, you should just hit that ignore button and stop talking about it, no one cares. Ti si obicna picka.

Believe me, sebstar is a smart guy and he will understand my well meaning sentiment.

I know a thing or two about psychology. In the worst of times the focus is to get through. It's not a regular situation. Whatever gets you through is a good thing, and once you're through you can start to think about resuming normal operations.

sebstar wrote:

TRU wrote:

sebstar wrote:life sucks and I hate it...cant wait to leave it. Real talk. fukk this shyt

Man, suck it up.

Tough love, bro... stop bytchin. That's the first step to getting past this.

Less Marbury, more Mason.

Easy to just spit that out and say that, bro.

Easy to say when its not you watching your father die. Easy to say that when its not your father that is talking suicide and your lil' sisters call crying and screaming because of it on the daily. Easy to say when its not your moms overseas because of this stupid ass war, hating life. Easy to say when its not you that felt like you had a soulmate and then the bytch acts like you never existed in conjunction to everything else going on. I flucked up like any man but I was there for her and I was close to her family and put nothing above that. Now I mean jack shyt. Easy to say when you're not the one feeling trapped by loneliness, guilt, and depression.

Im no bytch fam, but brothas bleed. Im human. I dont give a fukk what you have to say.

yo seb - sorry to hear. youre in my prayers dude. real tough stuff to deal with. i'm sure i speak for almost everyone here when I say if there's anything you need, just reach out.

I just can't see a Man-hurting-ass Sebby wallowing over a chick with the tough patina and unyielding ass manner. If so, then its best to talk it over (sounds like he is doing) but self medicating on weed only supresses the emotions which is never good. At least we know where the "Blobman" comes from!

Somehow I think Sebby is going to be just fine!

orangeblobman wrote:

kam77 wrote:

orangeblobman wrote:Alright..well, let me put my 2 cents in too.

Seb, you're my arch nemesis here, and while I usually would take great satisfaction in your suffering, this seems to be very real and a very hard time for you. Since you're human after all, and since I, too, have gone through some very difficult times recently, I wish you the best. And really want you to come back in full health so we can beef again.

Just try to stay calm and not get into any trouble or anything because that would just make things worse. Also, self-medicate with A LOT of marijuana and don't feel guilty about it. Do something you used to really enjoy doing, maybe play some video games, but most of all, don't feel guilty or bad about anything. Let loose a little and just let happiness come back to you again.

There is a joke in my country:

"what is the difference between a pessimist and an optimist?... pessimist says, '****, things can't get any worse'. but the optimist says 'hey, come on now, things can always be worse!'"

Good post. I don't know why the rest of you are so uptight.

Thanks Kam. They're uptight because they have a bias against me from way back ( I forget why), and because they are old.

But you, Seb, and I understand where I'm coming from.

Seb, seriously, best wishes, man.

Give yourself some credit, bro. It has little to do with any one particular post and much to do with your entire body of work

Great stuff above from Paladin, Kipling got me through some real shint too.

Hope its all working itself out man.

TMS wrote:seb bro, this song has gotten me through some tough times in the past:

What if you still want her back, tho?