Posted by oohah:
Only a lunatic can watch their own team night in and out rooting against them. So if you want to sit back and root for losses, why not just go sissy like DJ and root for the Craptors and come back when the team is good? What is the point of sitting down and rooting for your team to lose?
the only sissy around these parts is fish.
but i will hijack this thread for a few minutes...
unlike many people here, i had season tickets. i went to about 90% of the games. and arguably during the worst tenure in knicks history. so not only was i emotionally invested in the team, i was financially invested as well. now, nobody was holding a gun to my head and telling me to buy season tickets but b/c i did, my emotional connection to the team changed dramatically as i sat there and watched this nonsense play out. i was as big a fan as you could be, but then it got to the point where i wanted to watch the team lose. in fact, the last time i cheered for the team, a good play they made, a game they won, like sat there and cheered was during the 2005/2006 season. and then i was very vociferous on these forums displaying my disdain for management and the players here. so during the course of my season ticket tenure, i went from being a die hard orange and blue fan to a guy that disliked everything about the team. and like an idiot, i continued to get season tix for 2 more years after that hoping that would change. but it didn't.
and as of december 2007, i totally realized i was no longer a fan of the team.
something just clicked and i came to that realization. i can't explain it, but it just happened. i no longer like the knicks. and the clincher was that i became apathetic towards them, which means no emotion whatsoever. i never thought it could happen, but it did. so the knicks to me, are in the same boat as the nets, clippers, grizzlies, etc...just another team in the league i personally don't care about. now, one of my very good friends work's there so i hope they do well for her benefit, but that's about it. i continue to post on these forums b/c of the relationships i've made here and the people i've met. plus, i like talking about basketball. will i ever be a *fan* again? who knows, i never thought i could ever stop liking them but it happened. so never say never...but i've moved on. and my view on sports in general has changed...so i don't think i can ever become a fan of the knicks like i used to be.
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now back to the topic at hand...i feel that if you can't sit there and cheer for the team, or the players, then it's best to take a break from them. sports is supposed to be about fun and support (imho), so if you can't support, then find something you can. why beat yourself up constantly bashing a team, player, or management that you can't change? why not sit back and enjoy the product instead? or as douchah puts it, why cheer for your team to lose? this is a total 180 of how i used to view being a *fan* as recent as 1 year ago, but the knicks have changed how i view sports altogether.
[Edited by - djsunyc on 11-11-2008 10:41 AM]