nixluva wrote:TKF you don't know me or any real details about me but suffice it to say that I wasn't trying to engage you in a pissing match about who has the better Hip Hop culture credentials. The original points I was making had nothing to do with you or my personal experiences. I felt it was necessary to explain that my life's work has been centered around the music industry, not just acquaintances or friends! In addition I actually produce live events at arenas, clubs and colleges. I manage artists, record and produce, music videos, get out on the road etc. 30 years of this day in and day out. So let's just say we're at worst equal in our knowledge and experience in this area if that makes you feel better. A lot of the artists are just putting on for the role and are in fact not hood or thugs! Yes there are many who are but in my experience it's overblown. Most of the kids I deal with are smart and non threatening and love the fashion and lifestyle but not the violent aspects of society. The kids I deal with in H.S. and College aren't bad cuz they dress in Hip Hop styles! I also employ a lot of these kids as part of the Office of Workforce Development and agency that addresses youth employment. The vast majority of youth are good kids.The fact that some guys who buy luxury boxes would feel it made a real difference what clothes Players wore underscores a much larger problem. The players are individuals with varied interests and backgrounds but some people in power feel they should control and dictate what is acceptable and what isn't based solely on their own personal preferences and prejudiced assumptions of what a certain style of dress stands for. This is a superficial judgement not based in fact but prejudice. The look of these players so offended their sensibilities that they had to legislate CHAINS and Medallions out of the dresss code? Just think about that!
THAT IS FINE, and I will leave it at this.. your comments are condescending and you are trying to mitigate my credentials with comments like the one you made .. if you think that I lived in the same household with someone who sold millions of records and was just a mere acquaintance then you are absolutely delusional about your own situation.. Unless you yourself are a music star and have sold millions of albums yourself I don't see how you can sit up on a high horse and act as you have experienced anything more than someone else you don't know... that is all I will say..... no need for me to down your credentials to puff up mine.... as I said, no one is above learning a thing or two.. I am at least admitting that..... but whatever.. lol
ost of the kids I deal with are smart and non threatening and love the fashion and lifestyle but not the violent aspects of society. The kids I deal with in H.S. and College aren't bad cuz they dress in Hip Hop styles! I also employ a lot of these kids as part of the Office of Workforce Development and agency that addresses youth employment. The vast majority of youth are good kids.
that is nothing new you are telling me... but perception is reality, you are trying to school me on a culture I grew up in, I grew up in the south bronx, I have a teenage son who embraces the hip hop culture from the dress to the lingo,my wife and I spend a lot of time at video shoots, my wife especially since she is in that line of work, I interact with these hip hop artist a lot and so does she, we know there are some real nice guys there, as I said,I am closely associated with a few of them that are life long friends and I have a family member that was part of a very popular rap group for years, they are good people, but hip hop also has it's black eyes, and for most that are not familiar perception is reality, doesn't make them racist.... and when that part of your customer base is spending that king of money, you need to cater to them...
The fact that some guys who buy luxury boxes would feel it made a real difference what clothes Players wore underscores a much larger problem. The players are individuals with varied interests and backgrounds but some people in power feel they should control and dictate what is acceptable and what isn't based solely on their own personal preferences and prejudiced assumptions of what a certain style of dress stands for. This is a superficial judgement not based in fact but prejudice. The look of these players so offended their sensibilities that they had to legislate CHAINS and Medallions out of the dresss code? Just think about that!
dude, you don't get the point...geez, If Iwalked into my white collar job with sneakers, baggy jeans and a tank top, what do you think people would think of me? why do you think most companies, especially the banking industry don't allow you to wear any clothes that show tatoos? You cater to your customer... if the players want to dress "hip hop" away from their places of business that is fine, the NBA never told them they could not do that.. and as a fan, there is nothing wrong with holding the people who salaries you pay to a higher standard.. from dress to conduct.... so the people in the luxury boxes feel more comfortable throwing their money at athletes that they would feel comfortable carrying themselves in a more professional manner, then so be it.. if you don't want their dollars then screw them.. in the end, you screw yourself.... If I owned a business and my customers felt more comfortable seeing my employees neat, shaved and clean.. then guess how my employees are going to look?
The owner of the chic fila chain restuarants, Truet Cathy,lives a few miles from me here in georgia, but he took what was called the "dwarf house" and built it into a billion dollar empire we know as chic fil a... He is a christian and has a strict dress code for his employees.. the kids are all bright, clean, polite and they adhere to a strict uniform policy.. no baggy pants, chains or hanging shirt. best customer service of any fast food chain I have ever seen.... ask the employees are they hampered by such a strict policy and they will tell you they love working there.. I know.... again, perception is reality... are all of these kids good christian kids? who knows, but they sure do seem that way and that is all that matters, and every day the lines are wrapped around those restaurants....
cater to your customer base!!!!!!!!!!!
Anyone who sits around and waits for the lottery to better themselves, either in real life or in sports, Is a Loser...............
TKF