TMS: Allow me to break it down like this. Let's say I have decided that I need a wing man to accompany me to the bars to help me pick up women. I choose you and NYK4eva. We go out 100 times each and you get me laid twice and NYK gets me laid once. Now, I decide that I have to pick one of you guys as my long-term wing man. At this point I'm not going to make my selection based on who is better, because you both stink. Instead I may base my decision on who I have more fun with. Or who is more reliable(shows up on time, brings me to the most fun places). Or who causes me the least amount of trouble. Or who is professional and may be a good mentor for Allanfan20 who I ultimately think will be a great wingman. Or who I think has the most potential to improve for next year. I may base my decision on one factor, while another person may base their decision on one of the other factors. Neither is wrong, it's just our own personal decision making process. Now if I finally decide that NYK is my permanent wingman you really have no complaint because you weren't much better. I have no confidence in either of you and will make my own decision. Neither of you has an argument. Neither of you really can complain if I don't pick you because neither of you guys are doing the job I asked of you, which is to help me get laid on a regular basis. I don't have to explain to either of you why I made my decision and probably won't tell the truth to the media because I don't want to hurt someone's feelings. What I'll probably say is something like "I'm just going with the person that gives me the best chance of getting laid tonight"
Now let's say NYK continues to stink at his job and I decide to give you another shot at it. You've been working on your wingman game and have really upped your skill level. We start going to clubs and you are getting me laid every other night. You are outperforming NYK4eva so badly that none of the reasons stated above matter anymore. You're performing, he isn't, end of story. You have distinguished yourself and forced me to use you as my wingman. Before I needed all kinds of reasons to use one of you over the other. Now I have only one reason........Regular fornication!!!