Posted by 4949:
Posted by BlueSeats:
Cheating on your girlfriend with her daughter is sleezy under any conditions, as would be cheating on your girlfriend with her mother. Being some sort of father figure to her from age 10 on only makes it all worse. Between them, Woody and Mia had a bunch of kids in their households. One can only wonder how confusing this was for their sense of family, loyalty, sex, etc.
Loyalty? What's loyalty? That's like a slave to control and need. You either respect one another or you don't. You either love each other or you don't. Fooling around and divorce happens every single day.
The truth is none' of us know what happened in that home. A judge threw it out and that's the way it is. According to the kids (now adults) Allan did nothing to them. Now if' one day a truth does' come out, then I'll be very disappointed and up in arms. But I'm not joining some lynch mob. I think it's a valid subject (argument) and obviously one that needs to be talked out. Perhaps the people who hate Allan, maybe something happened to them that this reminds them of, to justify a need? Just an observation.
Enough with the "lynch mob," "slave," and "maybe something happened to them that this reminds them of" histrionics. If anyone is sounding like the subject hits too close to home it's you.
Have you taken a moment to consider how you might feel if you discovered your girlfriend of 12 years, who you were raising at least three children with, was screwing behind your back with your son? And that your son was cheating on you with your wife? Don't you think that would confuse the family dynamic just a wee bit? And how do you think the siblings would feel when their brother married their step mom, or their step brother married their real mom?
Starting around 1980, Allen began a 12-year relationship with actress Mia Farrow, who had leading roles in several of his movies from 1982 to 1992. Farrow and Allen never married, but they adopted two children together: Dylan Farrow (who changed her name to Eliza and is now known as Malone) and Misha Farrow (now known as Moses); and had one biological child, Satchel Farrow (now known as Ronan Seamus Farrow). Allen did not adopt any of Farrow's other biological and adopted children, including Soon-Yi Farrow Previn (the adopted daughter of Farrow and André Previn, now known as Soon-Yi Previn). Allen and Farrow separated in 1992 after Farrow discovered nude photographs Allen had taken of Soon-Yi. In her autobiography, What Falls Away (New York: Doubleday, 1997), Farrow says Allen admitted to a relationship with Soon-Yi.
After Allen and Farrow separated, a long public legal battle for the custody of their three children began. During the proceedings, Farrow alleged that Allen had sexually molested their adopted daughter Malone, who was then seven years old. The judge eventually concluded that the sex abuse charges were inconclusive,[42] but called Allen's conduct with Malone "grossly inappropriate". She called the report of the team that investigated the issue "sanitized and, therefore, less credible" and said she had "reservations about the reliability of the report". She also called Allen's conduct with Soon-Yi "inappropriate". Farrow ultimately won the custody battle over their children. Allen was denied visitation rights with Malone and could only see Ronan under supervision. Misha, who was then 14, chose not to see his father.I also don't know how you judge Woody and Soon-Yi's happiness. It's all conjecture. Just for kicks, I'll throw my conjecture out there too. I think Woody is miserable with Soon-Yi. She's unattractive and boring, and after the way he betrayed her mother she's never really trusted him with younger, more attractive women. This all makes him feel trapped, exposed and claustrophobic. Plus, Woody has always liked to change parters every few years, so his feet have been itching for a looong time now. He had no intention of marrying her, but he got caught with his dick out, but to defend himself from the accusations that he's a Humbert-Humbert (from the book Lolita,) which could have derailed his career, he's maintained this pretense that it's always been about true and eternal love. He'd love to bail on this relationship but he stays stuck to salvage his reputation.
