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Killa4luv
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4/16/2008  8:08 PM
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:

That was a pretty good video.
I just wanted to add that I posted this article in light of some of the conversations I've been having on this board with regards to race
and this election. I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those were on the wrong side in this.

In any event, I greatly appreciate all that has been said, and I want to think that whether people are talking about this or not, they are mulling it over
in their minds. My whole purpose in this is to expose some uncomfortable truths, that everyone needs to accept before we can move on. We will
never move on before we fully accept the weight of what has happened, and continues to happen, period.

I've blogged about this too, maybe some will find what Ive written interesting.
http://rebelology.blogspot.com/

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-16-2008 4:08 PM]

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-16-2008 4:10 PM]

Please go ahead and call out those posters.
You only have something to say when you think you're being called out?
Well heres 2 things to chew on:
1. I dont know you're views on this particular subject, so I'm not calling you out.
2. I am not shy, I chose not to call people out, because I didn't want to, I dont think its constructive.

and heres a third,Since you seem like your in a fighting mood if you'd like to debate about any aspect of this, or any similar issue, I'm game.

Holla.
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4/16/2008  8:34 PM
Posted by Killa4luv:
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:

That was a pretty good video.
I just wanted to add that I posted this article in light of some of the conversations I've been having on this board with regards to race
and this election. I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those were on the wrong side in this.

In any event, I greatly appreciate all that has been said, and I want to think that whether people are talking about this or not, they are mulling it over
in their minds. My whole purpose in this is to expose some uncomfortable truths, that everyone needs to accept before we can move on. We will
never move on before we fully accept the weight of what has happened, and continues to happen, period.

I've blogged about this too, maybe some will find what Ive written interesting.
http://rebelology.blogspot.com/

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-16-2008 4:08 PM]

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-16-2008 4:10 PM]

Please go ahead and call out those posters.
You only have something to say when you think you're being called out?
Well heres 2 things to chew on:
1. I dont know you're views on this particular subject, so I'm not calling you out.
2. I am not shy, I chose not to call people out, because I didn't want to, I dont think its constructive.

and heres a third,Since you seem like your in a fighting mood if you'd like to debate about any aspect of this, or any similar issue, I'm game.

Holla.

Congratulations on not being shy. But what made you think that I thought I was being called out? I was curious if, in the process of presenting your uncomfortable truths, you'd let us know who, in particular, should be feeling the most uncomfortable.

You also have more than enough experience with me to know better than to suggest that I "only have have something to say if I'm being called out." Of course, if there's a post especially unworthy of comment, I'll let it die.




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Killa4luv
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4/16/2008  11:23 PM
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:

That was a pretty good video.
I just wanted to add that I posted this article in light of some of the conversations I've been having on this board with regards to race
and this election. I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those were on the wrong side in this.

In any event, I greatly appreciate all that has been said, and I want to think that whether people are talking about this or not, they are mulling it over
in their minds. My whole purpose in this is to expose some uncomfortable truths, that everyone needs to accept before we can move on. We will
never move on before we fully accept the weight of what has happened, and continues to happen, period.

I've blogged about this too, maybe some will find what Ive written interesting.
http://rebelology.blogspot.com/

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-16-2008 4:08 PM]

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-16-2008 4:10 PM]

Please go ahead and call out those posters.
You only have something to say when you think you're being called out?
Well heres 2 things to chew on:
1. I dont know you're views on this particular subject, so I'm not calling you out.
2. I am not shy, I chose not to call people out, because I didn't want to, I dont think its constructive.

and heres a third,Since you seem like your in a fighting mood if you'd like to debate about any aspect of this, or any similar issue, I'm game.

Holla.

Congratulations on not being shy. But what made you think that I thought I was being called out? I was curious if, in the process of presenting your uncomfortable truths, you'd let us know who, in particular, should be feeling the most uncomfortable.

You also have more than enough experience with me to know better than to suggest that I "only have have something to say if I'm being called out." Of course, if there's a post especially unworthy of comment, I'll let it die.

I suppose you thought this post was especially unworthy then.
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4/16/2008  11:32 PM
What always struck me as ironic is that most of the scientific community believes that we all share a common genetic background and that it's likely we all emerged from Africa or somewhere close to it at some point in the distant past. Similarly in the Judeo-Christian religions we're said to all come from a common set of parents, Adam and Eve. It's sad to think that with all of the evidence which shows that we have more in common than we have anything that is different, why is it so hard to get along?

I used to feel strange about the fact that my family wasn't one race. I grew up at a time when having a Black identity was very important in the community and the idea of a racial diverse family wasn't so easy to digest. In my family it's real hard cuz we all look so different and yet the same. My mom and her sisters are all completely different shades. Her youngest sister is very light skinned and her middle sister is very dark. All of the grandchildren are all over the place. We have some with Blond hair and hazel eyes, others with flaming red hair. My kids have a sort of Brown hair with all kinds of blond highlights. Anyway, in the past during the black power movement days it wasn't popular to bring up the fact that you had a white parent or ancestor, ESPECIALLY if that was a Slave owner who raped your ancestor long ago. Basically many Blacks have had self esteem issues going back many decades. This manifests itself in all kinds of detrimental behavior to this day. The damage done was on the highest order and poor race relations makes it even harder to overcome. So I hope that things will change for the better. I think things already have begun to change. Many of the young people in my family are attending College and that is a 1st in my family.
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4/17/2008  12:17 AM
Posted by Killa4luv:


I suppose you thought this post was especially unworthy then.

Its neither especially worthy or unworthy. It was interesting. I don't have an hour to dissect it. If you're looking for discussion from certain posters who hold certain views, you should go ahead and ask them unambiguously to join the discussion. There's no reason to think they won't take it in the right spirit unless you feel you've either misrepresented them or been premature in your rush to call them wrong.

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4/17/2008  1:58 AM
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:


I suppose you thought this post was especially unworthy then.

Its neither especially worthy or unworthy. It was interesting. I don't have an hour to dissect it. If you're looking for discussion from certain posters who hold certain views, you should go ahead and ask them unambiguously to join the discussion. There's no reason to think they won't take it in the right spirit unless you feel you've either misrepresented them or been premature in your rush to call them wrong.

I have neither mischaracterized anyone's views, and I'm certainly not wrong.

Someone said this about Michelle Obama:

"I don't think it's appropriate for a Harvard educated executive who resides in a million dollar residence who is in line to become the first lady to say what she said. She should be proud to be an American from the day she was born into the best country in the world. She should understand the sacrifice of MILLIONS of Americans white black etc.. that gave HER the OPPORTUNITY she had. I'm sick of hearing crp like this--if you didnt like the country--go live in Canada."

and I responded with this:
"And herein lies the HUGE GAPING chasm between how many whites and black view this country. You do not know what her experiences were, nor do you know even the average or typical black experience in this country. I think it is beyond presumptuous to say that the moment you were born you should love and be proud of something. If you came from a group of people who were historically mistreated, and who continued to not recieve justice, adequate services etc in your country, who, even as one of the brightest people in your class in your elite college were ostracized, made a spectacle of, etc, i think you'd understand her position better. By the way, she said the first time she was 'really' proud, not the first time she was proud, there is a rather sizeable difference in meaning between the 2.

If you caught the kind of hell my father caught growing up in the Jim Crow south, and who is a vietnam vet, btw, I think you'd be singing a different song.
You have to consider people's perspectives and life experiences. Having it hard, in terms of poverty is one thing, having that and discrimination on numerous levels and the daily attack on your psyche is something that you dont ever consider, but you could understand it if you tried to."

And I'd think in light of the article that started this thread, said person and others who think like him (assuming there are others) would see my point. Which was why i said this:
I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those who were on the wrong side in this.



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4/17/2008  2:29 AM
Posted by Killa4luv:
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:


I suppose you thought this post was especially unworthy then.

Its neither especially worthy or unworthy. It was interesting. I don't have an hour to dissect it. If you're looking for discussion from certain posters who hold certain views, you should go ahead and ask them unambiguously to join the discussion. There's no reason to think they won't take it in the right spirit unless you feel you've either misrepresented them or been premature in your rush to call them wrong.

I have neither mischaracterized anyone's views, and I'm certainly not wrong.

Someone said this about Michelle Obama:

"I don't think it's appropriate for a Harvard educated executive who resides in a million dollar residence who is in line to become the first lady to say what she said. She should be proud to be an American from the day she was born into the best country in the world. She should understand the sacrifice of MILLIONS of Americans white black etc.. that gave HER the OPPORTUNITY she had. I'm sick of hearing crp like this--if you didnt like the country--go live in Canada."

and I responded with this:
"And herein lies the HUGE GAPING chasm between how many whites and black view this country. You do not know what her experiences were, nor do you know even the average or typical black experience in this country. I think it is beyond presumptuous to say that the moment you were born you should love and be proud of something. If you came from a group of people who were historically mistreated, and who continued to not recieve justice, adequate services etc in your country, who, even as one of the brightest people in your class in your elite college were ostracized, made a spectacle of, etc, i think you'd understand her position better. By the way, she said the first time she was 'really' proud, not the first time she was proud, there is a rather sizeable difference in meaning between the 2.

If you caught the kind of hell my father caught growing up in the Jim Crow south, and who is a vietnam vet, btw, I think you'd be singing a different song.
You have to consider people's perspectives and life experiences. Having it hard, in terms of poverty is one thing, having that and discrimination on numerous levels and the daily attack on your psyche is something that you dont ever consider, but you could understand it if you tried to."

And I'd think in light of the article that started this thread, said person and others who think like him (assuming there are others) would see my point. Which was why i said this:
I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those who were on the wrong side in this.

killa--You sound like a man who has a lot of hate in him. You see only 1 view and don't acknowledge the great side of the USA like Obama did tonight. All people have opportunity in the US---like Obama said this is the only country in the world where he could acheive what he has--I don't hold hatred towards German people today for what their fathers did to my ancestors--but you seem to hold a grudge. People can choose to move on or live in the past.
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4/17/2008  3:10 AM
Posted by Killa4luv:
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:


I suppose you thought this post was especially unworthy then.

Its neither especially worthy or unworthy. It was interesting. I don't have an hour to dissect it. If you're looking for discussion from certain posters who hold certain views, you should go ahead and ask them unambiguously to join the discussion. There's no reason to think they won't take it in the right spirit unless you feel you've either misrepresented them or been premature in your rush to call them wrong.

I have neither mischaracterized anyone's views, and I'm certainly not wrong.

Someone said this about Michelle Obama:

"I don't think it's appropriate for a Harvard educated executive who resides in a million dollar residence who is in line to become the first lady to say what she said. She should be proud to be an American from the day she was born into the best country in the world. She should understand the sacrifice of MILLIONS of Americans white black etc.. that gave HER the OPPORTUNITY she had. I'm sick of hearing crp like this--if you didnt like the country--go live in Canada."

and I responded with this:
"And herein lies the HUGE GAPING chasm between how many whites and black view this country. You do not know what her experiences were, nor do you know even the average or typical black experience in this country. I think it is beyond presumptuous to say that the moment you were born you should love and be proud of something. If you came from a group of people who were historically mistreated, and who continued to not recieve justice, adequate services etc in your country, who, even as one of the brightest people in your class in your elite college were ostracized, made a spectacle of, etc, i think you'd understand her position better. By the way, she said the first time she was 'really' proud, not the first time she was proud, there is a rather sizeable difference in meaning between the 2.

If you caught the kind of hell my father caught growing up in the Jim Crow south, and who is a vietnam vet, btw, I think you'd be singing a different song.
You have to consider people's perspectives and life experiences. Having it hard, in terms of poverty is one thing, having that and discrimination on numerous levels and the daily attack on your psyche is something that you dont ever consider, but you could understand it if you tried to."

And I'd think in light of the article that started this thread, said person and others who think like him (assuming there are others) would see my point. Which was why i said this:
I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those who were on the wrong side in this.

Killa, your tone has struck me as strangely defensive from the beginning. Maybe it has to do with the last time we sparred. I(deliberately) haven't commented on the article, as yet. So, you don't have to defend your position to me. I suggested that you name the posters with whom you'd like to speak; this was in response to your expressed frustration at the lack of response from those posters. Besides directly alerting those posters, it orients the rest of us as to what those posters may have said, without potential misinterpretation from your rather unique lens. The quote you later provided helps in this regard.

Hopefully "said person" (Briggs) further indulges you. The conversation would have had a better start if didn't declare yourself right, though.

[Edited by - codeunknown on 04-17-2008 03:11 AM]
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4/17/2008  1:26 PM
Posted by BRIGGS:
Posted by Killa4luv:
Posted by codeunknown:
Posted by Killa4luv:


I suppose you thought this post was especially unworthy then.

Its neither especially worthy or unworthy. It was interesting. I don't have an hour to dissect it. If you're looking for discussion from certain posters who hold certain views, you should go ahead and ask them unambiguously to join the discussion. There's no reason to think they won't take it in the right spirit unless you feel you've either misrepresented them or been premature in your rush to call them wrong.

I have neither mischaracterized anyone's views, and I'm certainly not wrong.

Someone said this about Michelle Obama:

"I don't think it's appropriate for a Harvard educated executive who resides in a million dollar residence who is in line to become the first lady to say what she said. She should be proud to be an American from the day she was born into the best country in the world. She should understand the sacrifice of MILLIONS of Americans white black etc.. that gave HER the OPPORTUNITY she had. I'm sick of hearing crp like this--if you didnt like the country--go live in Canada."

and I responded with this:
"And herein lies the HUGE GAPING chasm between how many whites and black view this country. You do not know what her experiences were, nor do you know even the average or typical black experience in this country. I think it is beyond presumptuous to say that the moment you were born you should love and be proud of something. If you came from a group of people who were historically mistreated, and who continued to not recieve justice, adequate services etc in your country, who, even as one of the brightest people in your class in your elite college were ostracized, made a spectacle of, etc, i think you'd understand her position better. By the way, she said the first time she was 'really' proud, not the first time she was proud, there is a rather sizeable difference in meaning between the 2.

If you caught the kind of hell my father caught growing up in the Jim Crow south, and who is a vietnam vet, btw, I think you'd be singing a different song.
You have to consider people's perspectives and life experiences. Having it hard, in terms of poverty is one thing, having that and discrimination on numerous levels and the daily attack on your psyche is something that you dont ever consider, but you could understand it if you tried to."

And I'd think in light of the article that started this thread, said person and others who think like him (assuming there are others) would see my point. Which was why i said this:
I do recall certain people on this board saying you should be proud of your country from the moment you are born, and
other arguments which I think are nonsense. My response was, you have no idea what it must have been like to be a black woman in 1980
at an elite ivy league school, or what her life experiences were like. I didn't know what her exact experiences were, but as a black man
with some very interesting experiences of my own, it was not difficult to imagine. As it turns out I was correct, and again there really is no
surprise there, but i hoped for more dialougue about this than has occurred, particularly from those who were on the wrong side in this.

killa--You sound like a man who has a lot of hate in him. You see only 1 view and don't acknowledge the great side of the USA like Obama did tonight. All people have opportunity in the US---like Obama said this is the only country in the world where he could acheive what he has--I don't hold hatred towards German people today for what their fathers did to my ancestors--but you seem to hold a grudge. People can choose to move on or live in the past.
Hey, how about you stick to the points and stop trying to psycho-analyze me over the internets cause i dont hat anybody. I'm actually quite the festive guy.
This is the only country in the world where he could achieve what he has? Really? lol. He couldn't become a lawyer and a presidential candidate anywhere else in the world? Well thats news to me.

You dont hate Germans, and I dont hate white people so I guess we're even. Difference is, you dont live in Germany, and I suppose if you did you would probably challenge holocaust deniers or people telling you the holocaust was no big deal, stop living in the past.
If being aware of my heritage, and my history, and the history of this gov't and this society towards my people, means I'm living in the past, so be it. I call it, historical context. we dont live in a vacuum. I'm not angry and I'm not bitter. My wife and I are above the national average in income & education so I'm certainly not letting anything hold me back or using anything as a crutch (as I'm sure you'd say sooner or later). For me its frustrating that you dont try understand where i'm coming from. Please read this and tell me if you think it applies:
So, for example, what does it say about white rationality and white collective sanity, that in 1963--at a time when in retrospect all would agree racism was rampant in the United States, and before the passage of modern civil rights legislation--nearly two-thirds of whites, when polled, said they believed blacks were treated the same as whites in their communities--almost the same number as say this now, some forty-plus years later? What does it suggest about the extent of white folks' disconnection from the real world, that in 1962, eighty-five percent of whites said black children had just as good a chance as white children to get a good education in their communities (12)? Or that in May, 1968, seventy percent of whites said that blacks were treated the same as whites in their communities, while only seventeen percent said blacks were treated "not very well" and only 3.5 percent said blacks were treated badly? (13)?

What does it say about white folks' historic commitment to equal opportunity--and which Taranto would have us believe has only been rendered inoperative because of affirmative action--that in 1963, three-fourths of white Americans told Newsweek, "The Negro is moving too fast" in his demands for equality (14)? Or that in October 1964, nearly two-thirds of whites said that the Civil Rights Act should be enforced gradually, with an emphasis on persuading employers not to discriminate, as opposed to forcing compliance with equal opportunity requirements (15)?

What does it say about whites' tenuous grip on mental health that in mid-August 1969, forty-four percent of whites told a Newsweek/Gallup National Opinion Survey that blacks had a better chance than they did to get a good paying job--two times as many as said they would have a worse chance? Or that forty-two percent said blacks had a better chance for a good education than whites, while only seventeen percent said they would have a worse opportunity for a good education, and eighty percent saying blacks would have an equal or better chance? In that same survey, seventy percent said blacks could have improved conditions in the "slums" if they had wanted to, and were more than twice as likely to blame blacks themselves, as opposed to discrimination, for high unemployment in the black community (16).

In other words, even when racism was, by virtually all accounts (looking backward in time), institutionalized, white folks were convinced there was no real problem. Indeed, even forty years ago, whites were more likely to think that blacks had better opportunities, than to believe the opposite (and obviously accurate) thing: namely, that whites were advantaged in every realm of American life.

Truthfully, this tendency for whites to deny the extent of racism and racial injustice likely extends back far before the 1960s. Although public opinion polls in previous decades rarely if ever asked questions about the extent of racial bias or discrimination, anecdotal surveys of white opinion suggest that at no time have whites in the U.S. ever thought blacks or other people of color were getting a bad shake. White Southerners were all but convinced that their black slaves, for example, had it good, and had no reason to complain about their living conditions or lack of freedoms. After emancipation, but during the introduction of Jim Crow laws and strict Black Codes that limited where African Americans could live and work, white newspapers would regularly editorialize about the "warm relations" between whites and blacks, even as thousands of blacks were being lynched by their white compatriots.



Do you care to respond to the article at all, or do you prefer to call me hateful and tell me to get over it?

[Edited by - killa4luv on 04-17-2008 1:28 PM]
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4/17/2008  8:43 PM
People think just because you bring out uncomfortable dialouge, they think you MUST hate people.

That's not true at all, what is true is that we would like to be understood and that is about it.

America has told people how to think about other people for far too long, so there needs to be some real understanding so we choose to discuss it.
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