Kobe hasn't exactly been the type to back down when challenged on the basketball court. I really think you're downplaying his toughness, which I think it very much old school.
Who would you rank ahead of him?
Kobe got hit a few times when he came into the league particularly when Chris Childs punched him LOL. Now if a player punched Kobe he would be lucky to play another game that season.
So I think you and I both could acknowledge that the league is not physical and that there are many teams who are on total cruise control *ahem* Knicks; so many times Kobe could drop 30 points without breaking a sweat. Between the ridiculous fouls that are called and just putting up shots Kobe has easily been able to achieve big numbers. Of course the NBA has always had scruby teams but at least in the past they still scrapped with the big name players.
One thing I will give him is that he brings it every single night and that one trait alone puts him head and shoulders above many players in this league and add that with his drive and arrogance it makes him a terrific player in this league.
Here's who I would rank above Kobe
1. MJ
2. Jerry West
3. George Gervin
4. Sam Jones
5. Oscar Roberston
6. Hal Greer
7. Pete Maravich
8. Kobe Bryant