Operating on the premise that the rported is true....
Gotta be honest. I respect Melo for his actions. Personally, I am surprised he didn't punch KG right in the mouth. I'd have accepted that.
Even Reggie Miller said trash talking has rules. Kids, relatives (dead or alive) , and especially spouses are taboo. Those are his words not mine, btw.
KG has over the years ramped up his trash talk to make up for his declining skills. Should Melo have handled the situation differently, I can't in good conscience pas judgement and say yes. I speak from personal experience, going through a divorce myself, you do things that just aren't you sometimes. Sometimes logical thinking really is out the window. Sometimes the wrong words make you snap, rightly or wrongly. From my point of view it could have been a lot worse.
The worst part of it is that KG got off scott free. Given his track record he is gonna run across the wrong individual he won' t be able to feign innocence away from and something is gonna happen. The NBA should open an investigation on KG for the incident because this sends a messed up message.
And Doc can go jerk off a leprechaun with his covering for KG. It's that obvious.