Posted by bitty41:
Quick question Blue do you think I should be allowed to be upset if some random guy grabs my butt or should I not make a big deal about it since so many women all over the media trivialize their self-respect? Hey Girls Gone Wild can be real confusing to a male with all those women displaying their "goods" why shouldn't a guy feel the right to say anything he wants to a woman.
That's a greqat question, and with it maybe we can get somewhere here.
But first, lets look at where 50cent's name was first raised:
Posted by BlueSeats:
Sure the mistereals, Tavis Smileys, Barack Obamas, etc of the world would never publicly call that basketball team "nappy headed hoes," but can you say the same for Wanda Sykes, Chris Rock, 50cent, and a zillion other folks out there who are setting the tone for what is acceptable in popular culture?
I clearly made the distinction that there are blacks who would NEVER encourage such talk, but then there are those who would. But time and again that is taken to mean that I'm implicating all blacks. Why?
I'll come back to that in a moment.
Back to GGW. As much as I love that crap, I think they are encouragative (is that a word?) of behavior like that. Particularly to the women who want to emulate that "free spirit", and also to guys who want to do homemade versions.
So, no, I don't think they
justify it, but do think they encourage and contribute to it, and that is consistent with the point I made in the Imus case.
Now if a guy gropes you and you want to press charges, I say fine, and I would not say the fact he watches GGW tapes exonerates him. However, if we as a culture want to diminish flashing and groping, cutting back on the GGW products might help.
Now let me ask you, most of the people in GGW are white. If you told me you thought that GGW sets a bad tone toward women, should I insist over and over that you were accusing ALL whites of behaving that way? Because that's the ploy that's been taken with me.
Early on I asked the question of whether shows like All In The Family, Chris Rock, David Chapelle, etc, were constructive or destructive with regards to racism, and nobody wanted to go there. I think that discussion might have been far more productive than a lot of the sideshow back and forth that's gone on here instead.
After that conversation we could then consider if Imus fit into that genre of comedy/parody. (And as I've said before, my opinion is as yet unformed on those questions.) I think those considerations would have yeilded a higher level of conversation.
What I percieve is the EnySpree rule is in effect, which loosely states if a white guys speaks racist jargon (comedic schtik included), it's racism. And I feel there's a similar thing that goes on within our own little thread here. Persons like you, bip, eny, loves, have all echoed some of my same sentiments, but when they say it it's cool and proper, when I say it it bears ominous overtones; or so the theory goes.
I think in your hearts it boils down to something like: "this is a black thing, you're white, you're not gonna get it, and even if you do we're not gonna hear it coming from you anyway, so just STFU." And in as much as mister earl prefers the whites of the 60's who'd let there racism show, I'd prefer if instead of twisting and misconstruing my words you guys would just say that and save us all a lot of typing.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here, and surely fall on my face when I should have backed out, but the feeling I get is that some blacks have a preconception of whites (call it a predjudice) as being either all-hating, and/or some sort of corn-bred goober who's never come closer to a black person than MTV. And whites are constantly being racially profiled accordingly: "Pull this guy over, he's a closet racist," or, "Get that guy, he's a green goober". And no amount of discussion can pull us out of the holes you have us in from the get-go.
And yes, as your own experiences have probably taught you, that stuff gets insulting fast.
Peace.