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mreinman
Posts: 37827 Alba Posts: 1 Joined: 7/14/2010 Member: #3189 |
![]() Welpee wrote:mreinman wrote:And how does one determine if a person is too intoxicated to give consent? Obviously if you're passed out drunk that's one thing. If a guy and a girl have been drinking and she's laughing and joking and being flirty, how does a guy determine she's too drunk to give consent? Tricky area.dk7th wrote:Welpee wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:Not denying that she previously refused. But that doesn't mean she didn't consent to it later. Look, nobody is claiming Rose is a saint. But you can't just automatically give the woman the benefit of the doubt just because she's a woman. There are a lot of shady athletes AND women out there.Welpee wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:Again, remember this is her account.ESOMKnicks wrote:mreinman wrote:ESOMKnicks wrote:mreinman wrote: very tricky but perhaps a good place to err on the side of caution, especially when you are bringing extra diks. https://www.quora.com/How-do-you-determine-that-a-woman-is-too-drunk-to-consent-to-sex so here is what phil is thinking ....
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ESOMKnicks
Posts: 21420 Alba Posts: 0 Joined: 6/14/2015 Member: #6064 |
![]() mreinman wrote:Welpee wrote:And how does one determine if a person is too intoxicated to give consent? Obviously if you're passed out drunk that's one thing. If a guy and a girl have been drinking and she's laughing and joking and being flirty, how does a guy determine she's too drunk to give consent? Tricky area. The link offers some good rules of prudence to try to steer clear of such situations. But prudence and law are different matters. I have searched what California law stipulates on the topic of what constitutes a level of intoxication where a person is no longer able to consent and how one can recognize it, but was not able to find anything definitive. And imagine the reverse situation: a guy gets very drunk, has a slurred speech, barely stands on his feet, then some woman takes him home and they have sex while he is clearly incapacitated mentally to make a sound judgment. The next morning he wakes up, sees this woman is a dog, thinks of the wonderful wife he has left back home, remembers the risk of STDs, etc. Can he claim that he was raped because he was too drunk to make a sound judgment about sex that night? |
mreinman
Posts: 37827 Alba Posts: 1 Joined: 7/14/2010 Member: #3189 |
![]() ESOMKnicks wrote:mreinman wrote:Welpee wrote:And how does one determine if a person is too intoxicated to give consent? Obviously if you're passed out drunk that's one thing. If a guy and a girl have been drinking and she's laughing and joking and being flirty, how does a guy determine she's too drunk to give consent? Tricky area. He should be afforded the same protection that she has. so here is what phil is thinking ....
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martin
Posts: 74860 Alba Posts: 108 Joined: 7/24/2001 Member: #2 USA |
![]() mreinman wrote:CrushAlot wrote:mreinman wrote:The documents I have seen involved him wanting her to bring another girl or to 'swing' with a friend and his girl. She didn't want to do it but I haven't seen anything that was submitted as evidence that involved him wanting her to do a bunch of his friends.Welpee wrote:mreinman wrote:"Shady sexual transgression" is a loaded term. One person's definition of a "transgression" could be another person's definition of just being kinky. Is an orgie a transgression or just kinky? But yes, he probably did something he shouldn't have done. Whether it was illegal is another story. Being a sleaze or a jerk is not a crime.Welpee wrote:StarksEwing1 wrote:I'm not on anybody's side. I'm not siding with Rose because he's a Knick. I'm not siding with the woman just because she's a female. Like I said, nobody really knows what happened. I will admit I find her version of the story hard to believe.Welpee wrote:so im guessing you are his side? Never said he raped her but it Seems like he pressured her which isnt rightStarksEwing1 wrote:Where do you draw the "good guy" line? Are you not a good guy if you hit the strip clubs? Cheat on your wife or girlfriend? Like having orgies? Like having sex on webcams? Date multiple women at the same time? Like taking pics of your privates with your cell phone? If being a "good guy" is defined by your bedroom behavior I bet you'd be surprised how many guys are also not "good guys," they just haven't been caught.nixluva wrote:but that isnt point. Sure he may not be guilty of a criminal charge but that behavior shows that he isnt a good guy. Thankfully he only has 1 year left on his dealStarksEwing1 wrote:nixluva wrote:Either way Rose messed up.StarksEwing1 wrote:nixluva wrote:Whether you love Rose or not he made a bad judgment in this situation. It doesn't matter if he wears a knick uniform. Hell if Porzingis did a similar thing I would criticize him too and he is my favorite knick.callmened wrote:I don't know whether there was consent or not. Crush has posted this link several times as everything you can find about the incident: CrushAlot wrote:Everything you want to know about what the two sides are claiming is covered here, http://thewhitebronco.com/2016/09/the-derrick-rose-sexual-assault-trial-primer/ Easy enough for you to answer for us. I have not read. Official sponsor of the PURE KNICKS LOVE Program
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mreinman
Posts: 37827 Alba Posts: 1 Joined: 7/14/2010 Member: #3189 |
![]() nixluva wrote:mreinman wrote:nixluva wrote:mreinman wrote:EnySpree wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:martin wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:martin wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:There seems to be a hideous double standard here. Athletes are expected to be "morally reprehensible people", that's what I can gather reading these last few pages, and any woman attempting to have a relationship with said athlete know going in that's what is to be expected. Just spread your legs and be a loose whore, you asked for it! Eny was pretty much concluding that he is not a rapist when he has no clue (and nor do we). Did I put words in his mouth? This was one of your quotes: She DID know he was like that and yet she still dealt with him. Not in a normal everyday relationship but a purely sexual relationship! They weren't doing laundry together and hittin up flew markets on the weekends!!! They weren't taking each other to meet the family and planning for a future together! She knew exactly what he wanted and she was fine with it. There was nothing normal about it. Feel free to explain that away ... I don't freakin care what kind of relationship that she and rose had! If she did not want to do his freinds then she has a right not to. She told him no again and again and again and all of the sudden she is drunk and not answering the door and boom! She gets nailed for something that she repeadedly resisted under heavy pressure. Now what actually transpired that night? Gonna be hard to ever truly know but Rose is gonna have a nightmare getting a Jury to let him off. He also tried repeatedly to get her to do sex videos for him but she was also not comfortable with it. These girls are starstruck and its easily for athletes to take advantage of them. Look all those gold diggers that came after cosby (PUKE!!!!!!!!!!!). At least this girl put up a fight and certainly tried to not give in to this sicko. https://thinkprogress.org/derrick-rose-rape-case-2182c16b55e2#.e8sf837na so here is what phil is thinking ....
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HofstraBBall
Posts: 27662 Alba Posts: 1 Joined: 11/21/2015 Member: #6192 |
![]() mreinman wrote:nixluva wrote:mreinman wrote:nixluva wrote:mreinman wrote:EnySpree wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:martin wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:martin wrote:ChuckBuck wrote:There seems to be a hideous double standard here. Athletes are expected to be "morally reprehensible people", that's what I can gather reading these last few pages, and any woman attempting to have a relationship with said athlete know going in that's what is to be expected. Just spread your legs and be a loose whore, you asked for it! Trying to understand. So you want everyone to give this women the benefit of the doubt and not call her irresponsible, loose, illicit, or an extortionist? Because, as you say, no one knows what really happened. But your quick to call someone a Rapist from just a couple of excerpts released by the plaintiffs attorney? The same attorney, who's client is trying to collect 21 Million dollars and is pushing for a settlement? Which btw, usually happens when an attorney employs the strategy of releasing shocking personal accusations of the defendant. And why do you keep accussing all those may suggest he is innocent until proven guilty, as Homer's? Why are you so quick to call him a rapist? Because he is young? Pro Athlete? Involved in lifestyle you don't agree with? Or is it something else? And stop hiding behind the "No one deserves to be raped" cop out statement. I dont think anyone here is saying anything close to that. 'Knicks focus should be on players that have grown up playing soccer or cricket' - Triplethreat 8/28/2020
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