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GhandiOrr
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Since the name of this Topic is: OMG: Tim Hardaway: "I hate gay people"
and not: Hate on gay people
maybe someone should open a "Hate on gay people" thread in the Off-Topic Forum," so there's a place users can go to post their gay jokes or just hang-out with like-minded people and condemn the sin, but not the sinner.
ISN'T THAT A GREAT IDEA?! (sarcasm)
For those of you who allowed a dialogue to take place here, hats off to you. It's impressive when you consider what a raw nerve "homosexuality" strikes in some people (no pun intended. Geesh, give me a break already, people) and what a raw nerve "bigotry" strikes in others.
A person's sexual orientation is of no consequence in the work place. But co-workers hang out and are encouraged to share their lives with one another, and athletes are encouraged to share their stories with the media, but gay people can't. I know an award winning teacher who happens to be a lesbian, but if people knew she was a lesbian many of them would completely dismiss all the wonderful things she has done for them and their families because they know, many or them from reading their bible, that she's sick. That's a double standard and it is wrong.
"But won't exposing children to this corrupt their minds?" you ask.
I took my kids to a Civil Union ceremony in Vermont, and told them this woman they knew was marrying another woman. My daughter said, "That's weird." I said, "It's not what most people do, but that's what they're doing." And that was the end of it. Is she completely confused now? Maybe, but who isn't?
On the one hand, I understand why Stern punished Hardaway. Hardaway is listened to because he was in the NBA, and the NBA is a business that can't be discriminating against people. But I wonder what Stern's reaction would be if a reporter asked a player if there was a special lady in that player's life, and the player said, "actually I've been in a long term relationship with a man." By condeming the messenger, Hardaway, so harshly and swiftly, is Stern also trying to say, "If anyone of my athletes ever talks about homosexuality again I'll kill you!"
I'm just speculating here. But doesn't all these "gay bashing" moments, that are quickly denounced, then apologized for by the spewer, all fit in to a kind of unofficial "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy that we all live as if we are under? And doesn't this keep the double standard alive?
Just a thought.
P.S. - I will always remember Tim Hardaway's high arcing fade away as a thing of beauty.
"You shall play basketball and you shall play it great."
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