He's a sensitive guy, and there's no shame in that- he's been through a lot over the years, probably more so than a lot of the people who mock him. He was great for LA, and a key reason why they won several championships- so before people start hating on him, just recognise what he's accomplished.
I'm not sure NY would be a good fit for him- the media could make his life hell. He just needs to take this time, and the summer, to decided if he really wants to carry on playing basketball. If he does, he needs to work like heck to get his conditioning and game back, and find a team he's happy playing for (Ha- maybe the Clippers!).
At the end of the day he's a good guy, and a really talented player who's accomplished a lot- he shouldn't be at the brunt of everyones jokes, when the chief reason for his decline is someones death over the summer.