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Are the Knicks BAD for their fans? (Mentally, spiritually ect.)
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Elite
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3/16/2007  10:28 AM
I love this team, but I notice they get me UPSET all the time. Is this something i truely want in my life? Does anyone else share this feeilng? Sure they can make me happy, but lets be realistic its upsetting more than it is enjoyable. I have considered taknig a break from watching them because of how much negativity i feel when i watch them and i am trying to rid my life of as much negativity as possible. Maybe its a matter of controlling the way they effect you but its a very tough task when you are as emotionalyl attatched as I am.

Anyone else feel this way? Have you considered taking a break from watching the Knicks for your own mental health? Lol i know it sounds funny but im dead serious.
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3/16/2007  10:45 AM
on some level it probably can be very stressful, especially when you emotionally attach yourself to a team you love as much as knick fans do (same can be said about Lakers, Celtics and Sixers fans too). I know personally some days, if I'm having a bad day and I go home late, I don't even want to check the score because I know that with this team, it's 50/50 if they showed up to compete or not and I know I'll just make my day worse and piss me off even more.
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3/16/2007  11:31 AM
FOr the last few years I was ususally done with them by march 1st!

My break with them emotionally was after the 1994 series and had nothing to do with inept managemnt or players. I just had my second child and I realized the team is gonna live wheather or not I am fanatic about them.

They gonna put food on the table? Gonna help me at work? Gonna get my house in order?

Sports usually are nice distractions but to watch each game really eats a lot of time. ITs not the knick as much as perhaps the maturation process over time.

Whats fun is forums like this were we get to hang out and hash it out. I actually read less articles on line than I used to by talking it up here.

Elite, no, this team is not worth the emotions. I admire Cuban as he really sees his team as labor of love. Dolan and Cablevision see it as a "product". Look of some of Charles Dolan's quotes and he literally call them a "product". They are competing for the NY entertainment doller in the spectator sports catagory.

Intead for the last 8 years I took up golf, tennis (body can't handle hoops. Broke my neck playing ball in college)and my son for the last 8 years played on an ice hockey team that played all over the east coast. I became INVOLVED with his team. They play about 50-60 games from Sept thru April.

Perhaps its age and commitment that has detached me emotionally from the team. In reality, due to free agency we are bound to the uniform and choose to follow the team close, thus we become very familiar with the players and root for them. I think if one actually put this time and energy into another team they would be also a fan of them.

We (haters and homers) choose to stay fans but the team as its been run for some time is making it harder and harder for me. I need to respect my team even if they are not winning. Dolan and Isiah lack a certain integrity.

The gag order given to players and coaches is really making me sick. Today its been quoted that when Dave Hanners and PHil Ford were asked about Larry they had no comment. That is bullsh!t! Its one thing to just mandate these guys just say "Larry and I are friends for 30 years and we hope he lands in a situation that works for him". But instead they have to say they can't say anything!

As a fan, I want to hear what coaches have to say about the team, players and the league. A flat out gag order is crazy.

We don't get honest output from our coach or GM on anymatters. This does not endear me at all! As fan, why disconnect me from the team? If a Coach is unhappy I want to know. I realize there are internal problems that perhaps should not always be aired but this alcohalic paranoia gig by dolan is really some crazy stuff.

My loyalty runs deep but as a serious fan I find Dolan is really trying to blow me away from the team. The causual fans likley does not care about this stuff and just wants to be a part of a winning situation.

So if Dolan can't make a winner for the casual fan and has taken to treat his staff like children not allowing them any contact with the press, then should I take interest in what the nets will do with Vince and Jason and rebuild the team in the next few years and they start winning I might also take a fancy to them.

While I dont disagree with re-upping Isiah at this time its largely because at this juncture I can't see how anyone else can dig out of this hole except to do what he did which was to buy his way out of Laydens mess, I really don't have any respect for him doing it with 19 games
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3/16/2007  11:44 AM
When i was a kid in the eighties, i would cry that day in the spring or summer that the Knicks were eliminated from the playoffs. I'd cry for a few minutes and then go outside and play ball and work it out.

Has anyone taken a long break from the Knicks?

For a while when i was in college my roommates and i decided not to have a TV. We had a TV, but no cable. So we played a lot of Tecmo Football and the old classic Tetris.

This was back in the late nineties when the Knicks still had a decent team, albeit with Ewing declining. I took a season off. I literally saw a handful of games that year and then watched the playoffs in may.

That was a weird time in my life, where I was giving up lots of things just cuz i was broke. I went vegetarian, lived on my friends couch, dropped out of school and worked in a pizza joint. I worked 25 hours a week, at night, so when the Knicks were playing i'd miss it, get home late, had no TV, wouldn't even know the score. It got to the point i wasn't even aware they were playing on a given night.

Now that i went back to school, graduated, and have a salary I can afford a few things. I dont have roomates anymore for one (praise jah) and have a TV, and cablevision, and a computer with internet (duh) I get more attached to these Knicks, and to stupid gimmickey TV shows, and other things that I know are not spiritually important to me and i don't have to consume these things to be fulfilled, in fact, it probably delays any fulfillment.

In those crazy college days i experimented with different chemicals, and different schools of religious thought. Its a weird experience to be solicited spiritually by a hari krisna devotee in the parking lot of a grateful dead or phish concert. Krisna consciousness teaches that we are not this body. We are spirit. And if we are not even our own bodies, then how can we be other labels like American, New Yorker, Knick fan, etc.... These are just distractions from the path of krisna conciousness (God consciousness).

But as a man, and a young man, even the hari krisnas realize that abstention is not for all or even most. Sex, drugs, rock and roll, even the New York Knicks have a role to play in our lives.

I feel healthier for going through a period of de-attachment once. Now i feel hooked again, but with the knowledge that this is a distraction. And distractions are supposed to be pleasant.

If the Knicks do something toxic again (like trading Eddy Curry and Channing Frye for some 30 year old post-surgery used-to-be star which is essentially what we did when we swung the Camby+#8 for Dyess deal) i'll probably have to take another season off. Right now though, i have a lot to look forward to next ye ar. I want to track the progress of the kids. The kids are easier to root for that 30-something vets on the downside of their careers.
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3/16/2007  1:16 PM
Posted by Nalod:

FOr the last few years I was ususally done with them by march 1st!

My break with them emotionally was after the 1994 series and had nothing to do with inept managemnt or players. I just had my second child and I realized the team is gonna live wheather or not I am fanatic about them.

Hen pecked huh nalod ?

JAMES DOLAN on Isiah : He's a good friend of mine and of the organization and I will continue to solicit his views. He will always have strong ties to me and the team.
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3/16/2007  1:28 PM
its all about learning how to not get frustrated when you watch them and just watch for entertainment purposes. Get excited when they win, but dont get upset when they loose.. VERY HARD TO DO... but if you get upset everytime they loose.. I am begining to believe it is EXTREEMLY bad for you as a person. Think about all the games where you get totally upset, it happens to me almost every night!!! Very Very unhealthy. Soemthing to consider
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3/16/2007  1:32 PM
I watch the Knicks when I can. Not every game, but as many as I can. Work, school, dating, friends takes up a lot of time though. Besides, this team just isn't worth my emotions, like Nalod, either. They've sunken to such a low level, that they celebrate mediocrity, and I just can't take it. When Spree, Allan, KT, and Camby were in charge, they accepted no losing. The players we have now don't have crap on those guys, besides our injured Lee and Quentin.

This team flat out isn't fun anymore.
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3/16/2007  1:44 PM
I watch all the games, see all the ups and downs and still have absolutely no stress and rarely am upset 2 minutes after a game. Why? Because I looked at the roster at the beginning of the season and new an inconsistent season was going to happen. It's like putting a steak on the ground by your dog, leaving for the day and being surprised an upset when you come home and the steak is gone. In your heart you knew exactly waht was going to happen, but all day you prayed that somehow some way your dog would not eat the steak.

We Knick fans know what our roster is capable of. All of us do. Optimists and pessimists know exactly who we are. The pre-season predictions bare this out. Yet we still pray that somehow some way things will be different. Take my advice and understand that we have a mediocre team. A win is great, but a loss will follow shortly after. That way when it happens you won't be too shocked and upset
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3/16/2007  2:04 PM
Posted by Bippity10:

I watch all the games, see all the ups and downs and still have absolutely no stress and rarely am upset 2 minutes after a game. Why? Because I looked at the roster at the beginning of the season and new an inconsistent season was going to happen. It's like putting a steak on the ground by your dog, leaving for the day and being surprised an upset when you come home and the steak is gone. In your heart you knew exactly waht was going to happen, but all day you prayed that somehow some way your dog would not eat the steak.

We Knick fans know what our roster is capable of. All of us do. Optimists and pessimists know exactly who we are. The pre-season predictions bare this out. Yet we still pray that somehow some way things will be different. Take my advice and understand that we have a mediocre team. A win is great, but a loss will follow shortly after. That way when it happens you won't be too shocked and upset

Thankyou for again being the voice of reason around here Bip.
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3/16/2007  2:09 PM
I watch all the games, see all the ups and downs and still have absolutely no stress and rarely am upset 2 minutes after a game. Why? Because I looked at the roster at the beginning of the season and new an inconsistent season was going to happen.

thank you.
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3/16/2007  2:48 PM
I feel so much better since I gave up on the Knicks. The owner is a bad guy, management is made up of bad people and most of the players don't give an honest effort every night. And there's absolutely no reason to trust the current ownership and management to build a contender. I wouldn't trust those people to hold my wallet for a second.

They've built a climate where Knicks fans are used and abused. They're so paranoid that they control the media in ways that would have made Hitler proud. Their network and website are nothing but propaganda machines. It's insulting and arrogant. But that's what Dolan and Isiah are great at.

The bottom line is that it's sad what they've done to this once proud franchise. They don't deserve their fans and their fans don't deserve to be treated like this.
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3/16/2007  3:11 PM
I watch all the games, see all the ups and downs and still have absolutely no stress and rarely am upset 2 minutes after a game. Why? Because I looked at the roster at the beginning of the season and new an inconsistent season was going to happen. It's like putting a steak on the ground by your dog, leaving for the day and being surprised an upset when you come home and the steak is gone. In your heart you knew exactly waht was going to happen, but all day you prayed that somehow some way your dog would not eat the steak.

We Knick fans know what our roster is capable of. All of us do. Optimists and pessimists know exactly who we are. The pre-season predictions bare this out. Yet we still pray that somehow some way things will be different. Take my advice and understand that we have a mediocre team. A win is great, but a loss will follow shortly after. That way when it happens you won't be too shocked and upset

You'd be suprised where some Optimist had this team recordwise at the beginning of the yr. Pretty good breakdown though. I just luagh at this squad. I find entertainment in this team not so much watching the games but watching the games within the games on and off the court.
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3/16/2007  3:15 PM
Posted by Bippity10:

I watch all the games, see all the ups and downs and still have absolutely no stress and rarely am upset 2 minutes after a game. Why? Because I looked at the roster at the beginning of the season and new an inconsistent season was going to happen. It's like putting a steak on the ground by your dog, leaving for the day and being surprised an upset when you come home and the steak is gone. In your heart you knew exactly waht was going to happen, but all day you prayed that somehow some way your dog would not eat the steak.

We Knick fans know what our roster is capable of. All of us do. Optimists and pessimists know exactly who we are. The pre-season predictions bare this out. Yet we still pray that somehow some way things will be different. Take my advice and understand that we have a mediocre team. A win is great, but a loss will follow shortly after. That way when it happens you won't be too shocked and upset

I knew they were going to be at least mediocre last season, and I knew they were be at least mediocre this season, from the get go. It doesn't mean I have to like it! And I don't get emotional over them either. I don't go "We're gonna win it all!!!!!" after a 3 game streak, which rarely happens, and I don't kill myself after bad losses.
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3/16/2007  3:26 PM
On some real ****, The Knicks be affecting my emotions at times. I think I like this team a little to much.
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3/16/2007  3:52 PM
Ya i think i have some sort of obsessive compulsive issue with the team.


I used to be really bad, like making trade idea, and posting everyday on RGM or K4L.


I think if we're unhappy in one area of our life, we look for an escape into something else.

Or atleast that's probly the case with me.


That, or because we have no life whatsoever.........probly also the case.



I'm probly happier when I don't know what's going on with the Knicks. I'm already too personally invested in it. It's like I'm hooked. It really is a neurological thing -- like with drugs or gambling or videogames.


If you can't keep it in perspective, best thing is to probly pick up a better hobby or some arm candy...
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3/16/2007  3:55 PM
For awhile I was numb to the losing. I think alot of it has to do with setting your expectations properly. Unfortunately the playoff sitaution has gotten my hopes up again(largely due to us not having our draft pick this year), and I got really pissed during the raptor game. I think what makes me most frustrated is Isiah's insistence on playing Curry even when he is not being effective offensively. I also miss watching lee play which is one of the things about this team that makes me happy.
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3/16/2007  4:15 PM
What makes it worse, is that my roommate is a laker fan ( and a Knick hater) and i have to hear his bitch ass everytime we lose. Lol I really gave it to him when we got that 8th seed tho
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3/16/2007  4:18 PM
last year was the great big bummer for me, not this year. i came into last year swigging some mad koolaid (as in predicted 50 w's - what an a-hole!). i got so thoroughly disgusted with larry, isiah and steph by the end of the season that i never wanted to see any of their faces again.

thsi year i came in swiggin' the hatorade (predicted 30 w's). the one thing that got me truly excited was going to a preseason game with nalod against nj and seeing how freaking good balkman was. but his minutes have been so erratic that that hasn't sustained me. i haven't been able to see as many tv games this year, but have have made it to the garden more often than in recent years. the hookups with the uk crew have been a total blast. win or lose we're gonna be in the bars rehashing it for hours afterward, so that by the time you get home it's out of your system

going to this board helps lighten things up when it gets too depressing. the dramas between the haters and the homers are just too much fun (the "passion of misterearl" thread, as eny put it ) and most of all, the humor on this board is just the perfect antidote to newyorkknicks blues.
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3/16/2007  4:22 PM
Posted by Marv:

last year was the great big bummer for me, not this year. i came into last year swigging some mad koolaid (as in predicted 50 w's - what an a-hole!). i got so thoroughly disgusted with larry, isiah and steph by the end of the season that i never wanted to see any of their faces again.

thsi year i came in swiggin' the hatorade (predicted 30 w's). the one thing that got me truly excited was going to a preseason game with nalod against nj and seeing how freaking good balkman was. but his minutes have been so erratic that that hasn't sustained me. i haven't been able to see as many tv games this year, but have have made it to the garden more often than in recent years. the hookups with the uk crew have been a total blast. win or lose we're gonna be in the bars rehashing it for hours afterward, so that by the time you get home it's out of your system

going to this board helps lighten things up when it gets too depressing. the dramas between the haters and the homers are just too much fun (the "passion of misterearl" thread, as eny put it ) and most of all, the humor on this board is just the perfect antidote to newyorkknicks blues.

Same here last yr was painful. Watching Lee and Frye getting limited minutes. Seeing Ariza and 15 million in cap room go for Francis. Curry fatt ass doing nothing for the team. Last yr definately hurt my heart
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3/16/2007  4:33 PM
I am not happy with this year but atleast every game except maybe a few I felt the Knicks could win the game and have been interesting to watch. Last year almost every game I felt was a guaranteed lost.
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