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ToddTT
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9/18/2014 6:28 AM
Cris Carter just became one of my favorite TV personalities.
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Moonangie
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9/18/2014 10:37 AM LAST EDITED: 9/18/2014 11:04 AM
Good op-ed on the psychological history of corporal punishment among african-american families...
http://www.nytimes.com/2014/09/18/opinion/punishment-or-child-abuse.html?ref=opinion Here's what beating your kids manifests in them... "feelings of sadness and worthlessness, difficulties sleeping, suicidal thoughts, bouts of anxiety, outbursts of aggression, diminished concentration, intense dislike of authority, frayed relations with peers, and negative high-risk behavior." Respect must be earned through teaching. Discipline is fine, as long as it is based on enforcement of rules, not threat of violence or actual use of it. "Those who are beaten, become beaters, too." "Adrian Peterson’s brutal behavior toward his 4-year-old son is, in truth, the violent amplification of the belief of many blacks that beatings made them better people, a sad and bleak justification for the continuation of the practice in younger generations. After Mr. Peterson’s indictment, the comedian D. L. Hughley tweeted: 'A fathers belt hurts a lot less then a cops bullet!' He is right, of course, but only in a forensic, not a moral or psychological sense. What hurts far less than either is the loving correction of our children’s misbehavior so they become healthy adults who speak against violence wherever they find it — in the barrel of a policeman’s gun, the fist of a lover or the switch of a misguided parent." And these quotes from another op-ed piece by Charles Blow: “Use of corporal punishment is linked to negative outcomes for children (e.g., delinquency, antisocial behavior, psychological problems, and alcohol and drug abuse), and may be indicative of ineffective parenting. Research also finds that the number of problem behaviors observed in adolescence is related to the amount of spanking a child receives. The greater the age of the child, the stronger the relationship. “Positive child outcomes are more likely when parents refrain from using spanking and other physical punishment, and instead discipline their children through communication that is firm, reasoned and nurturing. Studies find this type of discipline can foster positive psychological outcomes, such as high self-esteem and cooperation with others, as well as improved achievement in school.” |
EnySpree
Posts: 44917 Alba Posts: 138 Joined: 4/18/2003 Member: #397 |
9/18/2014 11:29 AM
Moonangie wrote:Good op-ed on the psychological history of corporal punishment among african-american families... This article is talking about people that beat 4 year Olds with tree branches. If a kid isn't responding to you talking and putting then in time out and taking things from them then what? Send to therapy? Highly medicate them? Call then autistic or say they have a attention deficit disorder? Nowadays people don't tell their kids anything. Calling bad behavior their way of expressing themselves. Or jus a kid being a kid. Smh? Subscribe to my Podcast https://youtube.com/c/DiehardknicksPodcast
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